Hi, In June my husband who is 43 of age told me he wanted freedom. He said we are not happy together cos always quarrel. I felt it’s just an excuse. I tried to talk nicely to him but he was not in favor. I was shocked cos we are always happy n loving. Therefore, I gave him his freedom by not asking anymore, not bother him his whereabouts. He still comes back home and act as if nothing happens...and ... long story. Then, today not sure why I decided to check his working bag when he’s out. I saw a box of condoms, left 6 out of 8. I saw a pack of cigarettes which he never smoke. But I suspect he did now as there’s a toothpaste n toothbrush in his bag too. I even saw a new box of medication Levitra. And another one called Cialis, 2 was taken. I guessed it matches the 2 missing condoms. Yes, he started to have erecting problems last year n therefore we seldom or never even have sex for this year. I didn’t think tat much as I thought love is enough. It doesn’t bother me. So now, my mind is so lost as in what’s happening?? Cheating? Testing his ability?