So happy to log in this morning and read such wonderful wonderful news! Congrats iwantitvmuch! Happy happy for you! Just to share, we didn’t fall in love” or connect straight away with our dd – but now she’s really got all of us around her little finger
I also didn’t bring my dd home till after the medical. She was with Alice for about a week after we first met her. So all in with Alice for about 2+ weeks. I feel Alice did a great job with my dd’s early days.
All the best for the home visit tomorrow. I remember asking the assessor what she’ll be looking out for and she said she WONT be chking the amt of dust on my tables hahaha. She’ll just be making sure the home is conducive and we’re not using it as a gambling den or other illegal purposes! So I think on that front, we will all pass the home visit lah!
Dream, hahaha, I remember I did the same thing when my dd slept for about 5hrs at a stretch the 1st time. Instead of sleeping more, I ended up waking up more just to check to make sure she’s ok! This past week her pattern changed – again. She was very good and giving us about a 5 to 6hr sleep stretch each night but this past week she’s been waking every 3 hrs for feeds..............I’m attributing it to a growth spurt.
Die – Alice told me that once the assessor schedules a home visit, it more or less means they’ll approve your HSR within 2 weeks. What happens after the home visit is, the assessor will finish up a 8-9 page report about her findings (from the office interview and home visit) and that’s the report that goes to MCYS to state our suitability as adoptive parents. Once they call/send you the HSR, that’s basically your ‘green card’ to adopt and bring a baby home. Alice told me that once the home visit is done, then you can actually start talking to agents etc to indicate your interest to adopt. If the timing is right, prospective parents may have identified a baby by the time the HSR is approved/in your hands! In my case, I waited till I got the HSR in my hands before calling Alice because MCYS had quite a few health related questions that they wanted our doctors to answer so that took a while so I wanted to be very sure they were gonna approve our case before I called Alice. Every case is different. I know of others who have gone ahead to meet their babies first while waiting for the final report to be out then by the time the report is out, they would have done medical etc and baby can come home already! So that really cuts short the waiting time. So just go with your gut feel when your time comes. You will know what feels right
Babylove – a belated happy deepavali! Why was it stressful? This year will be filled with many 1sts for us here
Iwantitvmuch, not fair leh, blesswbb may get to see your bb first. Not fair, not fair, hahaha. Post a pic soon, ok?