ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?

wah next time I can join weekday meeting bila dah resign. tapi CPT susah lah ;)

nora
izzit ? ohh ehheheh paiseh.

zu
in this forum ha ? kalau she got tips, bagus juga ;)
 


*Daec*
Lum resign lagi ke? Or still in notice period eh?

*Breeks gathering*
Lum leh confirm, but kalao sempat i just pop by aje coz dekat sey dgn rumah
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yasminy,
sorry lupa nak reply u. how % comm. u looking at? also depends on how much i can sell if anyone buying. hmm... if can, meet u on the flea market day boleh?

umloqman,
for car seat stroller, i used maxi cosi but only as a stroller on quinny zap. its very comfy for infants but i nv use in car. only for stroller or on floor to feed. its hot to sit in only when outdoors. other times, its design is perfect for infants.

breastfeeding:
anyone breastfeed ur baby until pregnant with the next baby? Ayuni 9 mths still breastfeeding. so wondering if will affect when trying to conceive. need to wean off or dont need?
 
Sally
All the best to you! Hang on without the epi, ok! If dah dilate, it will just take awhile! U're taking single bed? Sarah can keep u company. For me I did. Can't sleep without Thea around during the first night.

Hi Styli
From my experience, I was pregnant with my second baby when my first was turning 1. That time, we were celebrating her first birthday. Pulak tu, I have been breastfeeding her exclusively. But one thing for sure, our period comes later after giving birth if u breasfeed. Mine last till my first was 10 months old. After that I tersangkut. Still I breastfeed her thoughout my pregnancy despite people's reaction and advise me to ween her off. Now, I'm breastfeeding both my daughters. Both are healthy babies, Alhamdullilah.

Lynzi
As for the gathering, I will bring Darling if I can find a babysitter for Baby Mel. See all of you! I go with the majority, thanks!
 
babylee

wow... you are breastfeeding both yr gals?? You're amazing! one after another ke? Abih tu bila you rest seh? I've read about #1 tompang sekaki when #2 susu. can't imagine the surplus milk the mum has, given there's so much demand!

styli
You thinkin of #2 eh? My kid is 14 mths, but I'm not ready yet, and similar to you, I also wonder to wean off first. But I think I'll try to wean off , get him all independent first, then, try for no #2. Insya-Allah. Kita ni plan2 tapi never know what's in store for us...

A cousin of mine BF when she was preggy, and alhamdulillah she's fine, and baby's fine too...
 
babylee,
thanks for sharing. the main concern abt breatfeeding during prenancy is coz of nutrition wise rite? i did wonder abt breadfeeding during pregancy coz i did ask my mum if can or not. my mum claim that the baby would reject the milk.

smalldreams,
ur baby is 2007 cohort la.. ehhe. urs 14 mths reached 1 yr already so still ok. mine not even 1 now.
contemplating to have 2009/2010 baby - means either no.2 is after 1/2 yr gap. coz i wanna try for a Jan-Aug EDD. coz my first already Oct baby so i roughly figured its a 1yr cycle from conceive to end of maternity. hehe.. PLus my institution moving to new premises estimated to be in Jul 2009. tot of 'disappearing' during the shift. now exactly 1 yr to Jul 2009, seems a good time to try. i also tot of shifting myself before no.2!but with breastfeedin dunno if its easy as 1st time. i yet to get my period since delivery. I also tot of weaning off recently what u said. but quite attached to my baby la.. she waited up for me yesterday when i reach home late, My mum tried to give milk just before i reach home but she refused her bottle. so mostly reluctant to wean coz she looks forward to breastfeeding esp after I'm gone for a while.
 
Lynzi...

alamak babe!! 17 or 18 eh...? hmmmm...i tengah tanya my hubby ni, agak agak kalau dia relakan i pergi, maybe 17 but my girl finish skool 2.30pm...unless my hubby baik sangat hari tu , he might let me go wif my boy jerr while he fetch my girl n spend quality time together...hehehehe....u all go ahead wif the plan while i see how lahh.....
 
alamak Lynzi...

i tot u all organise malam.. coz on thur or fri i keje lah.. knock off at 6pm.. hmm.. nampak gaye i takle pi lah.. unless on sat.. :)
 
styli

breastfed babies memang cam tu lah - melekat dgn ibu satu macam. You betul2 kira specific eh? For me, I don't really mind, as long as there's at least a 2 yr gap between them. but if i can't take it at work, i might just consider having a second one just to go on maternity leave.

lucky for me my baby takes to formula quite well (i'm partially bf-ing now) but when I balik, sure dia nak BF sekejap - hilangkan rindu agaknya.

watie
hehe babies mana boleh keluar malam? dorang ada curfew...ehehhe
 
Sally
my bb Marsyha pon kena chic pox lah...admitted kat kk for 5 days when she is 13 days old...now dah baik alhamdullilah...

styli
i dapat the 2nd son when my 1st baru je 14 mths so the gap is 23 mths old so have to stop BF my 1st son.....and my 3rd gap wif the 2nd is abt 3yrs....so like DO RE MI....

my cousin now expecting the 3rd also and still BF the 2nd son....but her gynea Dr Aziz said if u sayang yr 3rd one please stop BF and it will affect the baby....takut premature....dats wats she told me.
 
styl,
hmm.. for easy calculation, i ingat nak jual @$15 for 20+ clothes. need to rombak wardrobe nih..
i will take pics for u to see tonite, insyaallah. pass u the items on the day itself/any convenient day.
up to u , brapa nak jual.
..isey, i love to join in the fun la kalau boleh..
 
re being sticky: just to share one thing interesting I found, tho my aunt didnt complete breastfeed two of her kids they also super sticky. one of them rejected BM after some time. maybe coz she got pregnant. the next baby was allergic to BM so had to take special type milk. both kids really very sticky to her irregardless even not BF. one of em cannot even look or play with her when she young - only wants mum. so think other factors also come into play too.
 
just read that the "pregnant man" da give birth. this transgender thing confuse me la.. lagi he said its not by c-sect. then macam mane tu.. funny hor. then dia buang everthing but keep reproductive organ.. internal ones i suppose..ish.. macam macam org sekarang. takde keje carik keje
 
Danryan

perhaps does it have to do with contracting of uterus too? Kalau BF, uterus contract abih tu baby dalam perut apa hal seh. Gynae pon boleh ada differing opinions jugak eh.

daec

Yeah maybe it's just the bond with "Ibu" regardless of BF or not. Cuma I rasa budak kalau BF, melekat in the sense, ibu balik rumah ajer, nak ngempeng etc. My hubby say I'm a fridge and my baby is my magnet. And Adam is also my shadow. Kadang nak gi toilet pon tak aman.

But I do agree that other factors come to play to - mums tend to "kuasa" to spend time with kids, so naturally kids would prefer mums. But of course if there's an alternative caregiver who rapat sekali, the kid may also choose that caregiver.
 
nora,
earth sure is getting older by the day.. heh
fancy kalau the 'father' marahkan anaknya;
"Bertuah nye budak! Penat aku ngandongkan 9 bulan!"
ekekek.. buruk seh..
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smalldreams,
"ngempeng" - like to hear that word,esp when it comes from my nenek.. hee
 
When my 1st one was born....after maternity leave i balik to work...
but have to rush back during lunch hr by taxi to BF him....kalau dekat tak pe but fr Lavender to Wdlands then back to lavender...
he now dah 5yrs old but still ngempeng and sleep wif me and my hubby pulak kena sleep kat tilam tak leh share the katil...luckily the 2nd one sleep wif my mom.
 
nora
kesihan de baby. bingung nanti as his parents diff from most.

smalldreams
guess case to case juga. have fren who BF, tapi budak-budak tu cari maid juga. I dunno why also. she susah hati nak give up BF coz at least the kid cari her for that. I know she doing the best she can, spend as much time as she can with the kids as she is working. so cant say she dun try enuff either.
 
smalldreams,

specific coz when they r older n if gap is pri 1 n pri 3, easier to hand down books n other stuff. if the gap is more, not so coz sometimes the syllabus change very fast. my maternity previously was during staff appraisal period so i did 5 reports during my maternity, which only 3 was used. very distruptive so feddup ah.. which is why the jan -aug EDD.

BF during pregnancy: oh.. means breadfeeding will contract the uterus and thus more likely to have premature delivery coz of the preceived contraction? or premature coz placenta not enuff nutrients? maybe shd google on this.

ngempeng - kids find their maid coz their maid is 24 hr ard. some maid even sleep with the kids, so in the nite anything also the maid. unlike their mums working. if the line is clear that the person is alt caregiver eg. only in the day, the kids will be close but not until cannot bear to part. mum bond is strong as long as ard n spend time but first few month when total BF is not only melekat. i felt its more than that. once i woke up after a nap terkejut coz of nightmare. 5-10 min later, ayuni also same la... wake up crying very badly

nora,
that guy still a female tat's y can pregnant, looks je like guy. saw their magazine pics in email.. eee..
 
*styli*
i dah fill up the survey and spoke my mind PUAS PAUS at the comment area...keke hope job eligibility for preggies will be improved in time

*nora*
Took my PAKTOR tix today... if bump each other on that day
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jgn lupa cakap hi eh...

*Job interview hari ni*
All i can say is...buahahahaha!! I think the only reason why this job interview thingy got this far is becoz they dunno im preggie
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Sigh... but i think i'll pauto to them if i get to the next round. Coz i think est salah my pregnancy. i think im into my 6th month n not 5th month
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so mcm tak fair for employer to take me in so late in my pregnancy. Feel so guilty pulak
 
yasmin and smalldreams-
this' ngempeng' must be from bahasa jawa.. cos i tau ngeces.
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macam satu family bunyi dia!


nor,
wah tmr nak gi pak tor dgn hb..
mesti romantic tgk wayang bawah bintang! :p
 
*Zu*
No lah bukan besok but on the 12th... tu pun my hubby kena apply overseas leave (on his off day??) so that the dating will be uninterupted with all his stupid recalls.

*BF during preggy*
hmm.... i tot that's not safe? Will effect the bby nanti like wat styli said. It contract the ueterus.
 
*Styli*
Thanks so much for your info on the stroller. Quinny zap is the one that you can fold like an umbrella kan?

And yes I can understand why your colleague did not like Paris. Some places are overcrowded especially during July & August sebab vacation period maybe.Budak budak cuti sekolah jadi parents pun ambil cuti juga. September dah reda sikit.. jadi aman juga. Budak budak kat sana masuk sekolah tahun baru mulai september.
So you like Paris? Tahun bila you pergi dan apa yang you like about Paris?
 
Is there any mummies here who experienced fast labour? Mine lasted 1.5 jam in all and I am worried for my next one to be even faster. Harap harap sempat pergi hospital. I tak tahu if ambulance service kat singapore is reliable or not. If anyone can share experience, terimakasih in advance.
 
suzzana

OMG, you're like super lucky lah - 1.5 hrs labour only!! or is yr threshold of pain superrr high? Tak rasa contractions, sekali by the time rasa, dah 9.5 cm dilated, terus plooop - give birth :p
 
*Smalldreams*

Before tu tak rasa apa apa suddenly rasa macam nak pergi toilet and lepas tu suddenly macam nak pengsan, sampaikan panggil ambulance. Medic kat ambulance tu cakap jangan push.. ooh susahnya.. nak tahan. Sampai aje kat ward bersalin bila bidan suruh push.. lega rasanya baby boy I pun arrive, hubby I sampai tak sempat sambut sebab tak boleh ikut kat ambulance. Tak sempat ape ape lagi. Yalah fast labour ni ada baik nya.. kalau sempat pergi hospital. Yang merisaunya kalau tak sempat tu.. "terpopped" kat mana mana aje.
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zu,
yup, it is jawa..

styl,
suppose to take pics of the clothes for u to see last nite, too busy with baby n housewrk after work la.
thought i take nap to rest,
buka mata dah pagi, got to prepare to go work.
ekekeke

suzzana,
wo.. cepat tu..
 
zu

ngeces (C pronounced as "ch" ke pronounced as "se" hehe... first time i dengar tau!

Suzana

My friend pon fast labour jugak - first time 4 hrs, second one about 2 hrs. Best betul. Tapi i can imagine holding back the urge to push - susah seh!
 
suzanna
dats was fast delivery....

my 2nd delivery lasted 2.5hr, 1st one was 4.5hr and the 3rd one was 4.5hr also....and all delivered on 37 and 38 weeks.
 
Styli,
For me I did some research on BF while pregnant. True, I do have my doubts during that time. The link that lipswix post will help you. For me I did also called up Breastfeeding Mothers’ Support Group (BMSG) 63393558 and ask them questions. And always get a doctor who knows/understands breastfeeding because some doctors are really clueless YES CLUELESS about breastfeeding.

DanRyan,
Glad to hear too that your eldest son is still sleeping with you and ngempeng(ing). For me I too don't mind if my children do that. We just need to buy a bigger bed to accomodate all 4 of us.
 
wah! babylee! you breastfed both kids til today? how old are they?

i suppose, for some people, kalau badan kuaat, boleh buat kerje macam gini.

tapi, for people like me yang lembik habis, i can barely support myself and the baby in the womb during my first pregnancy, ni nak support another one by breastfeeding. my badan tak sanggup.
 
thanks for the links. did give me some idea abt bf during pregnancy. interesting.
babylee, the doctor no personal experience. usually from books. ehhe...

umloqmann,
the quinny zap bends at the middle, so fold it forward the handles to the front wheel, then the whole stroller will fold downwards to be quite compact. but its a bit heavy. smooth ride n very manvourable coz of the front wheel which swirvels. sometimes, we play with the stroller with ayuni inside. hahah.. now ayuni can sit upright on her own so i stopped using maxi cosy on the stroller. but on the zap, she needs a pillow behind coz she's quite small for zap.
 
smalldreams-
its nge-ch-ez! susah la nak tulis macam ne bunyi dia. lol!!
i heard my cousin used tt bila anak dia nye air liur meleleh. mcm kip on drooling... i pun tak pernah dgr. maybe mak2 yg slalu berbahasa jawa can help us. me v clueless.
 
naddy, smalldreams,

My eldest is going to be 2yo this Thursday, and my youngest is going to be 3mths this Wednesday. Initially very frustrating cos the eldest very jealous. Screaming and throwing tantrums. Now, dah ok. I only feed the eldest during her noon nap and bedtime. Sometimes, during the night she will just self serve. Lift my baju and latch. My youngest one I try to pump and give thru bottle. But sometimes too lazy I just give direct je.

Zu,
Abt all this dialect language kan, I figure out, kiter yg malays altho our races ade yg bugis, boyanese ke Javanese ke, we don't use this language for communication. Semua cakap malayu. I think our generation dah tak pandai lah. I cuma tahu sikit sikit - Wes mangen urung? Maknanye - Dah makan ke belum?
 
*breastfeeding*
Babylee I admire you for having breastfed and still breastfeeding your children. Just to 100 percent bf my son until he reached the age of 1 was already a challenge for me. The male pediatric i had at that time was not at all supportive of bf.
 
zu

hehe, thanks. dah jadi mcm linguistic class ajer...

babylee
So by now yr 2 y.o more towards comfort latching? Since yr youngest is only 3 mths, am sure your milk supply banyak - melimpah-limpah :p

Contrary to what nad once said, I'm quite afraid of weaning my kid off although he's already 14mths. He's still on partial BF - and night time, he'll latch to sleep (bad bad habit!). I can't imagine latching 2 babies - kalau cam tu, I tak payah buat kerja lain seh. Melekat ajer dgn budak2 (oh nooo!) Unless can master the art of BF both kids thru babylee.
 
umloqmann,

Wow, that's really fast- 1.5 hr. Me- 12 hrs still not dilated by more than 5cm -itu pun dah put in a lot of things to make it faster.

paris- I was there in 1997. I was on polytechnic attachement in Quimper - western France. So went down to Paris - though I'm not a "city" person, I like it , prob It's so long ago, a lot of things have changed now. But Paris at that time, still has its charmness that I can never forget. Champs-elysee, La tour Eiffel,the quaint cafes!!

sally,

just counting the days, huh!! all the best! My Braxton Hicks contractions can be so frequent at times...
 
babylee
Yes dia still ngempeng coz b4 get the 2nd son mayb he tak cukup BF...only gentel my breast puting till i had the bb gerl recently...baru dia stop....bila get the 2nd one he stop BF already.

sally/madam
dah berapa bulan now??sorry tak keep track of the post...bz wif my bb gerl
 
mademoiselle
I dah try the Belgian waffles with ice-cream at your hubby's stall on Saturday. It was yummy! Too bad we were in a hurry, tak sempat nak try the brownies. I ni memang chocoholic, so will try that next time.

Danryan
Wow, your first kid masih ngempeng dgn you at nite? I tak boleh have kids next to me when I sleep. Macam rimas gitu. My 3 kids sleep in their own rooms ever since balik from hospital after they were born. But the first few weeks, I macam setengah matilah, pergi balik to the baby room every 1 to 2 hours to breastfeed. Our pediatrician so khairan abt this when she came to my place for Hari Raya last year, cos dia sendiri sleep on the bed with her 2 older kids while her hubby (who is my gyny at Mt A) sleeps on the mattress with the baby. My hubby commented: Dr. banyak duit pun kena tidur kat tilam seh!
 
misha's mummy,
the waffles are nice?
alamak...now u making me even more tempted to try.
where excatly in tpy is it eh?

madem,
if we do gatherings can order from your hubby's store tak?
or if in bulk ada special disc??

YEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA...
today sch hols so i'm going down to town with faiq later to shop!!
wahahaha!!!
 
misha
yelah..dia dah jadi eldest brother pon macam baby jugak....

lynzi
yup now sch holiday but me wif Danial, my 1st son now kat opis although still on maternity leave need to prepare GST and submit b4 end July...bawak my son so tak yah nak stay lama2 dah habis boleh chao...
 
Naddy

I was thinkin abt what you wrote abt being "lembik" during yr pregnancy. But sometimes, things might get better during yr 2nd pregnancy. Sekali tu, terus jadi kuat eh? Allah knows!
 
lynzi
nak datang orchard road bawak payung tau, hujan nie.
i dread school holidays, orchard road pack ah, susah nak jalan. lagi lagi now sana sini got upgradig works...
 
*School holidays*
Now school holidays ke
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i tot the holiday just over? ni holiday ape pulak sey?

*Breeks gathering*
Me lum confirm yet coz the contracter lum call lagi... i confirm with u all nearer the day k.

*Sally*
Mcm mane nak kali fast labour? Any tips or special technique tak? My dilation also very fast 1 jam dah fully dilate but the bby tak leh keluar push mcm nak rak pun taknak keluar
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end up sampai 6hrs of pushing...boring sey, i mean no point in dilating so fast kalo taknak keluar pe... hopefully no3 will be shorter labour
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Nor
Memang school holiidays dah over. Today is Youth Day.

lynzi
Actually this is the first time I try Belgian waffles. Different from the normal American ones I selalu makan. I think Belgian waffle pakai yeast, yg American pakai baking powder. Different but nice jugak. I didn't go in by TP, although there's an entrance there. I went by CTE from YCK, keluar at Braddell. Turn right to Braddell Rd. The gate is immediately after the Muis building yg lagi rebuilt. (Actually I missed the gate the first time and had to make 2 big u-turns to go there.) Go through the gate, turn right and all the way in. Can't miss it, cos the queue for Botak Jones there is super-long. Too bad tak halal!
 

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