<table border=1><tr><td></TD><TD>NICK</TD><TD>NAME OF CHILD</TD><TD>Age / DOB</TD><TD>PLACE</TD><TD>SAHM/ FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>1</TD><TD>mixedup</TD><TD>Adam</TD><TD>10-May-05</TD><TD>CCK</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Sarah</TD><TD>7-Dec-07</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>2</TD><TD>nur</TD><TD>Farhanah</TD><TD>13-Jul-05</TD><TD>Whampoa</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Rian</TD><TD>18-Sep-07</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>3</TD><TD>boo</TD><TD>Aqilah</TD><TD>5 yrs</TD><TD>Jurong</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Aqil</TD><TD>2 yrs</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>4</TD><TD>watie</TD><TD>Irza A'fina </TD><TD>25-Apr-04</TD><TD>Jurong West</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Aqil Mirza </TD><TD>17-Sep-06</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>5</TD><TD>lenna</TD><TD>Erfan</TD><TD>4.5 yrs</TD><TD>Woodlands</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Fitra</TD><TD>4mths</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>6</TD><TD>aida</TD><TD>Sarah</TD><TD>4 yrs</TD><TD>Pasir Ris</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Syeza</TD><TD>20mths</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>7</TD><TD>MoMMa Zue</TD><TD>Muhd Izz Zikry</TD><TD>5 yrs</TD><TD>Woodlands</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Muhd Izaaz Aqil</TD><TD>2.5 yrs</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>8</TD><TD>junaine</TD><TD>Ilham Rusyaidi</TD><TD>11mths</TD><TD>West Coast Rd</TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>9</TD><TD>lynzi</TD><TD>Muhammad Faiq Rifqi</TD><TD>2-Dec-07</TD><TD>Woodlands</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>10</TD><TD>babylee</TD><TD>Athelea Adam Lee</TD><TD>9-Jul-06</TD><TD>Woodlands</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Melissa Adam Lee</TD><TD>8-Apr-08</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>11</TD><TD>mamaliz</TD><TD>Sarah Nur Maya</TD><TD>12-Nov-01</TD><TD>AMK</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Muhd Nur Hilmi</TD><TD>27-Oct-06</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>12</TD><TD>Shermin</TD><TD>Sharfan</TD><TD>22-Jun-04</TD><TD>Tampines</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD>13</TD><TD>lynn</TD><TD>Naufal</TD><TD>11-Aug-07</TD><TD>Bedok Reservoir</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>14</TD><TD>bettybad</TD><TD>Ilyas</TD><TD>8-Jun-05</TD><TD>Bukit Panjang</TD><TD>PTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Ihsan</TD><TD>29-Jun-06</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>15</TD><TD>*sasha*</TD><TD>Sabrina Aaliyah</TD><TD>20-May-03</TD><TD>Toa Payoh</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Aaron Khayr</TD><TD>2-Jan-05</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Hadi Rayhan</TD><TD>3-Jan-05</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Saarah Anisha</TD><TD>2-Sep-06</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>16</TD><TD>Idah</TD><TD>Muhd Adlan</TD><TD>5-Dec-07</TD><TD>Tampines</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD>17</TD><TD>Sally Cinnamon</TD><TD>Sarah</TD><TD>23-Jan-06</TD><TD>Sembawang</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Expecting 2nd</TD><TD>EDD July 08</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>18</TD><TD>Nabmum</TD><TD>Amirul Hamizan</TD><TD>14-Mar-05</TD><TD>Woodlands</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Nabila</TD><TD>29-Sep-07</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Expecting 3rd</TD><TD>EDD Nov 08</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>19</TD><TD>NoraRossi</TD><TD>Danish Irfan Bin Irwan</TD><TD>20-Apr-05</TD><TD>Whampoa</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD>20</TD><TD>Styliciously</TD><TD>Ayuni Hidayah </TD><TD>10-Oct-07</TD><TD>Chai Chee</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>21</TD><TD>Danryan </TD><TD>Muhd Danial </TD><TD>3-Oct-03</TD><TD>Woodlands</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Muhd Raiyan </TD><TD>1-Sep-05</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Expecting 3rd</TD><TD>EDD 12 June 08</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>22</TD><TD>naqia</TD><TD>Adam</TD><TD>15-May-07</TD><TD></TD><TD>FTWM/WAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD>23</TD><TD>misha's mummy</TD><TD>Reza</TD><TD>10-Jan-02</TD><TD>YCK</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Zahra</TD><TD>2-Feb-04</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Misha</TD><TD>15-Mar-07</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>24</TD><TD>aryanti</TD><TD>Arumi</TD><TD>14-Nov-06</TD><TD>Jurong West</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD>25</TD><TD>Nora Aw</TD><TD>Muhammad 'Izzat</TD><TD>29-Jul-06</TD><TD>Pasir Ris</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>25</TD><TD>Ilya (jules)</TD><TD>I'ril Rifqy</TD><TD>6-Sep-06</TD><TD>CCK Crescent</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>26</TD><TD>Hottiemama</TD><TD>Anisya Adlyn </TD><TD>16-Sep-04</TD><TD>Fernvale Link</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Aqeel </TD><TD>27-Jul-07</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>27</TD><TD>SexyMumma (Sharena)</TD><TD>Farah Adena</TD><TD>7-Nov-06</TD><TD>Bt Gombak</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Shakil Arman</TD><TD>8-Apr-08</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>28</TD><TD>yasminy08 </TD><TD>Nur Hanna</TD><TD>20-Nov-07</TD><TD>Serangoon North</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>29</TD><TD>daec</TD><TD>Nada Insyirah</TD><TD>18-May-07</TD><TD>Kembangan</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD>30</TD><TD>ryatie22</TD><TD>Qistina</TD><TD>17-Sep-04</TD><TD>CCK</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Qasdina</TD><TD>31-Jul-06</TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>31</TD><TD>mademoiselle</TD><TD>Amaar </TD><TD>17-Mar-05</TD><TD>Chai Chee/Kembangan</TD><TD>FTWM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Expecting 2nd one</TD><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD>32</TD><TD>Ummloqmann </TD><TD>Loqmann</TD><TD>30-Jun-05</TD><TD>Pasir Ris</TD><TD>SAHM </TD></TR><TR><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD>Expecting 2nd one</TD><TD></TD><TD></TD><TD> </TD></TR><TR><TD></td></tr></table>
ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
- Thread starter bubs
- Start date
betty.bad,
i intend to go on npl again next year or year after next. after that, if and when i come back, i'll go on part-time til my youngest child is 12. but for part-time, every school is different. so i must negotiate my package with the school.
lynn,
rajin u buat table.
i live in woodlands and my daughter is 2 years, 4 months.
i intend to go on npl again next year or year after next. after that, if and when i come back, i'll go on part-time til my youngest child is 12. but for part-time, every school is different. so i must negotiate my package with the school.
lynn,
rajin u buat table.
Lynn, hehe, I just realised that I gave you wrong info lah. My Ihsan's bday is 29 Dec 2006. Mama dia ni pun dah nyanyuk.
Naddy, yeah, for part time, memang different schools approach that matter differently. At least, you ada option to go part time. My principal at that time refused me flatly, cakap it will be troublesome for her to find someone else to take the other half of my workload. I was the first one in that school to ask.
Anyway, I like being where I am now, although I would have to miss out on all benefits of being a full time teacher. Flexi adjunct no benefits at all. But while my colleagues are now busy in school for the school's open house since this morning till late afternoon, I relek kat rumah. Hurhur.
Naddy, yeah, for part time, memang different schools approach that matter differently. At least, you ada option to go part time. My principal at that time refused me flatly, cakap it will be troublesome for her to find someone else to take the other half of my workload. I was the first one in that school to ask.
Anyway, I like being where I am now, although I would have to miss out on all benefits of being a full time teacher. Flexi adjunct no benefits at all. But while my colleagues are now busy in school for the school's open house since this morning till late afternoon, I relek kat rumah. Hurhur.
eh eh...
i must take credit for the table.
i yang buat table...sally yg update then now the duty has been passed on to azlin to update...ehehe...
betty, naddy,
yup yup...teaching is irritating an stressful when u have to do all this.
i am sooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy that i quit at the rite time.
this july my school having open house...plus External Validation and also another round to to review our training plans.
so much work.
tak sanggup mak buat...hahaha!!
i must take credit for the table.
i yang buat table...sally yg update then now the duty has been passed on to azlin to update...ehehe...
betty, naddy,
yup yup...teaching is irritating an stressful when u have to do all this.
i am sooooooooooooooooooooooooo happy that i quit at the rite time.
this july my school having open house...plus External Validation and also another round to to review our training plans.
so much work.
tak sanggup mak buat...hahaha!!
hi mummies
Cakap pasal teaching ni..i dah masuk 9 yrs teaching and I'm feeling the 'malas-ness' of gg to school. However nt ready to let go my pay and bonus as yet! Dah sedap pegang duit sendiri.. been shopping during the GSS to stock up on work clothes..sigh...always hv to do this everytime i got pregg and delivered. Lagipun i haven't updated my wardrobe for a long time so this time kena overhaul..my baju banyak yg i kasi my aunt..so at least tak go to waste lah. Shopped a lot at Centrpoint and Holland V. Semalam met up with my mum and aunt and managed to find clothes again...tak berani nak tgk bill on clothes alone!
Oh ya..sallycinnamon mana eh? Nak tanya dia mana dia beli her girl's leggings...i'm also into it now. Dah pesan my aunt in US to get it for me but mcm lambat gitu nk tunggu cos she's still here on hols.
Later nk gi Pariss Family International for buffet dinner - ada family gathering.. this will be the last reunion before my aunt goes back to US and my mum back to UK, now that my Grandfather pun dah pass away...
Those going to Big Splash update us on the place eh...nk chk out jugak the place another day. Anyone chkd out the new downtown east yet??
Cakap pasal teaching ni..i dah masuk 9 yrs teaching and I'm feeling the 'malas-ness' of gg to school. However nt ready to let go my pay and bonus as yet! Dah sedap pegang duit sendiri.. been shopping during the GSS to stock up on work clothes..sigh...always hv to do this everytime i got pregg and delivered. Lagipun i haven't updated my wardrobe for a long time so this time kena overhaul..my baju banyak yg i kasi my aunt..so at least tak go to waste lah. Shopped a lot at Centrpoint and Holland V. Semalam met up with my mum and aunt and managed to find clothes again...tak berani nak tgk bill on clothes alone!
Oh ya..sallycinnamon mana eh? Nak tanya dia mana dia beli her girl's leggings...i'm also into it now. Dah pesan my aunt in US to get it for me but mcm lambat gitu nk tunggu cos she's still here on hols.
Later nk gi Pariss Family International for buffet dinner - ada family gathering.. this will be the last reunion before my aunt goes back to US and my mum back to UK, now that my Grandfather pun dah pass away...
Those going to Big Splash update us on the place eh...nk chk out jugak the place another day. Anyone chkd out the new downtown east yet??
sharena,
u can go order babylegs from kidzloft website.
they will post it to u.
to date, faiq now has 17 pairs of bblegs...faintzz
wah...shopping for work clothes eh.
i can relate to that.
everytime before start of a new term i must always shop for work clothes...dah buy clothes mesti buy shoes to match...then buy beg pulak...ehehe.
if pakai new clothes macam semangat sikit nak go school.
u can go order babylegs from kidzloft website.
they will post it to u.
to date, faiq now has 17 pairs of bblegs...faintzz
wah...shopping for work clothes eh.
i can relate to that.
everytime before start of a new term i must always shop for work clothes...dah buy clothes mesti buy shoes to match...then buy beg pulak...ehehe.
if pakai new clothes macam semangat sikit nak go school.
amaars_mom
New Member
Hi all,
Thanks for the support. My hubby and his partner baked the brownies and waffles at the shop itself. The shop is not certified halal but the ingredients they used are halal. The shop is manned by his partner's auntie during the weekdays and my hubby and his partner will do one of the weekend. So you may see him there if you drop by on the weekend.
Personally, I felt the waffles is nice when you dipped in the choc sauce that goes with it. Not too sweet. It's the Belgian waffles type, not the soft Prima Deli type. They can also do orders for parties and functions.
Today, I went to a seminar organised by my son's school. One of the speakers is Oniatta Effendi - the host for Krayon. Quite good as she share her experiences as a mother of 2. She's expecting the 3rd, also due to be in Sep08. She used the techniques from Supernanny and it worked for her. It worked for Amaar too -esp the naughty step/corner. But I admire the technique where she don't co-sleep with her kids since day 1. Wish that i have that patience/energy to do it.
Thanks for the support. My hubby and his partner baked the brownies and waffles at the shop itself. The shop is not certified halal but the ingredients they used are halal. The shop is manned by his partner's auntie during the weekdays and my hubby and his partner will do one of the weekend. So you may see him there if you drop by on the weekend.
Personally, I felt the waffles is nice when you dipped in the choc sauce that goes with it. Not too sweet. It's the Belgian waffles type, not the soft Prima Deli type. They can also do orders for parties and functions.
Today, I went to a seminar organised by my son's school. One of the speakers is Oniatta Effendi - the host for Krayon. Quite good as she share her experiences as a mother of 2. She's expecting the 3rd, also due to be in Sep08. She used the techniques from Supernanny and it worked for her. It worked for Amaar too -esp the naughty step/corner. But I admire the technique where she don't co-sleep with her kids since day 1. Wish that i have that patience/energy to do it.
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
Hi everybody..
Alahai punyalah panjang lebar thread ni..I sampai tak sempat nak baca all!!
To new mummies..
Welcome..
Watie
Mana lama menghilang after the anugerah?!!
Styliciously
Alaaaa I tak masuk sini baca the thread on thurs kalau tak, Friday boleh calling2 go town eh!!
Naqia
*WINK*
Coach and kate spade this time tak joinlah..I kirim Tktotts lagi..hehehe
She has to go out of town quite often so kirim la..no shipping and handling, apa lagi!! HEHEHE
Mademoiselle
Mana BP you? Nak tgk jugak jual ape? Waffles mcm sedap gitu!
Micky
If you want, my MIL is a retired malay teacher. She is currently giving tuition on full time basis. Residing in the east but is able to travel to your house. If you are interested, please PM me for more details.
Alahai punyalah panjang lebar thread ni..I sampai tak sempat nak baca all!!
To new mummies..
Welcome..
Watie
Mana lama menghilang after the anugerah?!!
Styliciously
Alaaaa I tak masuk sini baca the thread on thurs kalau tak, Friday boleh calling2 go town eh!!
Naqia
*WINK*
Coach and kate spade this time tak joinlah..I kirim Tktotts lagi..hehehe
She has to go out of town quite often so kirim la..no shipping and handling, apa lagi!! HEHEHE
Mademoiselle
Mana BP you? Nak tgk jugak jual ape? Waffles mcm sedap gitu!
Micky
If you want, my MIL is a retired malay teacher. She is currently giving tuition on full time basis. Residing in the east but is able to travel to your house. If you are interested, please PM me for more details.
ClassyShimmers
Active Member
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Hi mummies just came back from Big Splash..sorry did not venture so much there as the whole place was so crowded n they are lots of game stall there..The best part was the screening of movie by the beach followed by awesome fireworks
But i do know there is a Playclub for kids there, "FriskRomp" Here's their website www.frisknromp.com
Nor, yup i'm going to the Pak Tor event by NTUC at Fort Canning, been quite sometime since the last movie date, aniwae its rely cheap $2 per couple.. hehehe
u coming?
BTW, Here's the website http://www.umovies.com.sg/?intCategoryID=4&intPostID=345
But i do know there is a Playclub for kids there, "FriskRomp" Here's their website www.frisknromp.com
Nor, yup i'm going to the Pak Tor event by NTUC at Fort Canning, been quite sometime since the last movie date, aniwae its rely cheap $2 per couple.. hehehe
BTW, Here's the website http://www.umovies.com.sg/?intCategoryID=4&intPostID=345
watie
Active Member
Lynn02
haha.. i nie tak lah bagos sgt.. i keje comp kecik.. juz dat i handle most of the company nye quotation.. dat time ade new girl masok.. yer yer cakap willing to belajar... i penat2 ajar die.. tulis notes lagik tau!! in d end how she repayed me? on my last day of work, she told me she not coming to work anymore.. punya lah marah i! dia ckp stress.. tak tau mcmane nk buat quotation.. i dulu lagi terok sey.. takda org yg ajar i.. semua kene blajar sendiri.. until now, lum carik replacement... so my plan skarang, hang ard dulu lah.. lepas rayer, i cabot.. i nak jadi SAHM skejap.. hehehehehe..
mamaliz,
ok ah set.. tgh tunggu jer bile bole mit..
Shimmers
i majok lah.. sebab my hb tak dpt qualify anugerah.. tak dpt sekaki dgn alif aziz.. hahahaha... tak lah.. cume tym anugerah i SAHM.. now i da FTWM.. my hb kate nanti nak masok anugerah lagik.. i ckp.. sudah! i dun wan 2 go thro it again.. mcm aku pulak nak nyanyi.. hahaha...
haha.. i nie tak lah bagos sgt.. i keje comp kecik.. juz dat i handle most of the company nye quotation.. dat time ade new girl masok.. yer yer cakap willing to belajar... i penat2 ajar die.. tulis notes lagik tau!! in d end how she repayed me? on my last day of work, she told me she not coming to work anymore.. punya lah marah i! dia ckp stress.. tak tau mcmane nk buat quotation.. i dulu lagi terok sey.. takda org yg ajar i.. semua kene blajar sendiri.. until now, lum carik replacement... so my plan skarang, hang ard dulu lah.. lepas rayer, i cabot.. i nak jadi SAHM skejap.. hehehehehe..
mamaliz,
ok ah set.. tgh tunggu jer bile bole mit..
Shimmers
i majok lah.. sebab my hb tak dpt qualify anugerah.. tak dpt sekaki dgn alif aziz.. hahahaha... tak lah.. cume tym anugerah i SAHM.. now i da FTWM.. my hb kate nanti nak masok anugerah lagik.. i ckp.. sudah! i dun wan 2 go thro it again.. mcm aku pulak nak nyanyi.. hahaha...
Sigh..nantok still not yet finish packing eveything
But singgah sini jap nak chk wat the latest b4 i sleep
*Nora*
Yup me going coz dulu time school aka dating time, we would go fort canning for "under the starts" events.
Miang eh...
Mayb i'll cya there then. u bawak tikar...or tikah? hehe lupa cam mane nak spell lah. Lynzi help me out!!
*madam*
My oven dah meletup a few months back so i can't bake anymore brownies, cookies or cake... and idam giler right now
insyallah, kalau OTW mesti singgah jap, coz me nvr go jln2 TPY b4...
*Nora*
Yup me going coz dulu time school aka dating time, we would go fort canning for "under the starts" events.
Mayb i'll cya there then. u bawak tikar...or tikah? hehe lupa cam mane nak spell lah. Lynzi help me out!!
*madam*
My oven dah meletup a few months back so i can't bake anymore brownies, cookies or cake... and idam giler right now
smalldreams
Active Member
shimmers
Oh you kirim dia the LC bags eh ? Best eh dia, asik travel ajer! My boss has gone to US this morning and dia tanya nak kirim apa2 tak. Tapi I tak kirim lah, punyer lah segan!
Madem
OK, I actually work at TP. If I venture beyond Braddel, I'll pop by. I love all things chocolates. In fact, so many zits now coz my MIL brought so much chocs home
Nor
Under the Starts events? Ke Under the Stars? Hur hur..
Anyway rumah u sure berselerak with all the CB eh. I'll arrange for my hub to collect from ya from woodlands since he works there. I sms u so it's easier for ya. Most likely Thurs or Fri.
Sharena
9 years into teaching? FOoh lama tu! I'm 4 yrs into my current job and I dah tak boleh tahan. But like what you said, just not ready to have zero income and depend on hub for $$. Dah lah my hub tu masih student ! Sometimes I wonder if the new generation have it too easy. Orang dulu2, can do the same job sampai lah pencen...
Lynzi
17 pairs of babylegs???! Makkk aiiii! That's a LOT and costly too! I only have 1 pair for Adam, tu pon bukan babylegs, but dittany leggings. I don't quite like it also coz it's licin (when Adam was crawling then) and also melorot coz Adam aint exactly a chubby wubby. Tu pon I pakai a few times ajer when we were staying in a hotel.
Oh you kirim dia the LC bags eh ? Best eh dia, asik travel ajer! My boss has gone to US this morning and dia tanya nak kirim apa2 tak. Tapi I tak kirim lah, punyer lah segan!
Madem
OK, I actually work at TP. If I venture beyond Braddel, I'll pop by. I love all things chocolates. In fact, so many zits now coz my MIL brought so much chocs home
Nor
Under the Starts events? Ke Under the Stars? Hur hur..
Anyway rumah u sure berselerak with all the CB eh. I'll arrange for my hub to collect from ya from woodlands since he works there. I sms u so it's easier for ya. Most likely Thurs or Fri.
Sharena
9 years into teaching? FOoh lama tu! I'm 4 yrs into my current job and I dah tak boleh tahan. But like what you said, just not ready to have zero income and depend on hub for $$. Dah lah my hub tu masih student ! Sometimes I wonder if the new generation have it too easy. Orang dulu2, can do the same job sampai lah pencen...
Lynzi
17 pairs of babylegs???! Makkk aiiii! That's a LOT and costly too! I only have 1 pair for Adam, tu pon bukan babylegs, but dittany leggings. I don't quite like it also coz it's licin (when Adam was crawling then) and also melorot coz Adam aint exactly a chubby wubby. Tu pon I pakai a few times ajer when we were staying in a hotel.
Hello semua!!!
Lama tak online or post cuma baca je....tak sempat ler...
Just to share
Since i baru bersalin tu....when i reached home my 1st son Danial kan ada chic pop lepas tu after 13 days later my gerl Nadiah Marshya pulak kena jangkit yg baru 13 days old tu...so me and she was warded at KK for 5 days...kesian betul masih baby lagi pulak tu...but now alhamdullilah dia dah ok......kita pulak masih dlm hari terpaksa lah stay kat spital jugak....lepas 2 days in the spital my 2nd son Raiyan and my maid pulak kena lahhhhhhhhh.....satu umah ada chic pop...actual my 1st son got it fr his clas K1...before sch holiday dah ada yg kena...when balik sch abt 6 kids absent same case jugak....kita urut baru je 3 days leoas tu kena stay spital bila balik malas pulak nak sambung urut...
Those mommies expecting....CONGRATSZ.
Please update my list...can!
3rd Gerl
Name : Nadiah Marsyha
DOB : 03/06/08
Raiyan D.O.B. is on 30/8/05
Danial D.O.B is on 25/10/03
Trima kaseh ler byk2
Have a gd weekend all.......
Lama tak online or post cuma baca je....tak sempat ler...
Just to share
Since i baru bersalin tu....when i reached home my 1st son Danial kan ada chic pop lepas tu after 13 days later my gerl Nadiah Marshya pulak kena jangkit yg baru 13 days old tu...so me and she was warded at KK for 5 days...kesian betul masih baby lagi pulak tu...but now alhamdullilah dia dah ok......kita pulak masih dlm hari terpaksa lah stay kat spital jugak....lepas 2 days in the spital my 2nd son Raiyan and my maid pulak kena lahhhhhhhhh.....satu umah ada chic pop...actual my 1st son got it fr his clas K1...before sch holiday dah ada yg kena...when balik sch abt 6 kids absent same case jugak....kita urut baru je 3 days leoas tu kena stay spital bila balik malas pulak nak sambung urut...
Those mommies expecting....CONGRATSZ.
Please update my list...can!
3rd Gerl
Name : Nadiah Marsyha
DOB : 03/06/08
Raiyan D.O.B. is on 30/8/05
Danial D.O.B is on 25/10/03
Trima kaseh ler byk2
Have a gd weekend all.......
styliciously
Member
hihi,
finally got to the webby on the tv, my hubby has been hogging. so many post until kena read the archive.
Nora, sorry didnt join u last min. Hope u enjoyed ur day there! How's the fireworks? NDP nyer ke? Ayuni was tired from Friday outing. She slept quite long for abt 2-3 hrs. I manage to deco Ayuni's room with stencilling when she was sleeping. very Nice. Mostly flowers with butterflies with A to Z across and her name at the top.
SAHM / FTWN:
If i SAHM, most prob i do lots of projects at home: Home deco, Craft, baking etc - will keep me entertained but somtimes, i feel time wasted if stay at home with nothing much accomplish esp if time passed sekjap. Money wise, i will feel like a student all over again, got time no money!!! NOooo........ most times, i have the impression that some families with SAHM have no financial stability - bad experience with my brother-in-law family. cannot settle own bills, no money to buy milk, loans not within means etc. I find it very terrible that u dunt even have money to buy milk!
FTWM, for me i guess same as Sharena. Its the fiancial security i'm aiming for while enjoying myself. Otherwise, wont be able to get married n have kid so fast! and a few more before 30. haha.. I grew up in family with limited funds so i pick up most my mum's spending/saving habits n beliefs. Eg, No Loans & Debts, No Credit cards, n others that bad spending habits ah.. but my spending power high, also will be victim with rarely used stuff and cluttered house.. ahaha, also I must control my hubby's spending also. tat one lagi susah. ish ish..
but savings wise, keeping my bonuses this year onwards are reserves for emergency n paying policies for savings.
haven't check out the webby links.
shimmers, ok! fridays, anything will calling!
Leggings,
I got 2 pairs for ayuni. bought 1 for my niece. both ditttany ones. Rarely use but go nice with those skirts with attached underwear, baru yest wore for her like dat. patterned ones - the colour luntur but only initially and not very bad. but the printing is front n back tak match n got line at the side.
finally got to the webby on the tv, my hubby has been hogging. so many post until kena read the archive.
Nora, sorry didnt join u last min. Hope u enjoyed ur day there! How's the fireworks? NDP nyer ke? Ayuni was tired from Friday outing. She slept quite long for abt 2-3 hrs. I manage to deco Ayuni's room with stencilling when she was sleeping. very Nice. Mostly flowers with butterflies with A to Z across and her name at the top.
SAHM / FTWN:
If i SAHM, most prob i do lots of projects at home: Home deco, Craft, baking etc - will keep me entertained but somtimes, i feel time wasted if stay at home with nothing much accomplish esp if time passed sekjap. Money wise, i will feel like a student all over again, got time no money!!! NOooo........ most times, i have the impression that some families with SAHM have no financial stability - bad experience with my brother-in-law family. cannot settle own bills, no money to buy milk, loans not within means etc. I find it very terrible that u dunt even have money to buy milk!
FTWM, for me i guess same as Sharena. Its the fiancial security i'm aiming for while enjoying myself. Otherwise, wont be able to get married n have kid so fast! and a few more before 30. haha.. I grew up in family with limited funds so i pick up most my mum's spending/saving habits n beliefs. Eg, No Loans & Debts, No Credit cards, n others that bad spending habits ah.. but my spending power high, also will be victim with rarely used stuff and cluttered house.. ahaha, also I must control my hubby's spending also. tat one lagi susah. ish ish..
but savings wise, keeping my bonuses this year onwards are reserves for emergency n paying policies for savings.
haven't check out the webby links.
shimmers, ok! fridays, anything will calling!
Leggings,
I got 2 pairs for ayuni. bought 1 for my niece. both ditttany ones. Rarely use but go nice with those skirts with attached underwear, baru yest wore for her like dat. patterned ones - the colour luntur but only initially and not very bad. but the printing is front n back tak match n got line at the side.
*naqia*
hehe yah under the stars...pagi-pagi nantok so type mcm bonggok sikit keke.
*Styli*
I think if u nak jadi SAHm then ur hubi gaji kena POWER. If not susah seh. I dulu pun ada exp cam ur BIL. Very diff life tau. In the end still need to go back to work if not situation will be worst.
*Lynzi*
Ish ish...Faiq overdose on leggings nanti hehe
*Leggings*
So far i tak pernah buy the babylegs tyoe coz looks cam panas. But i got the skidpants, not bad licin and quite cooling. cuma prints dia obit sikit.
*Sharena*
Snaggup keje teacher for ur shopping hehe... my teacher frens also waiting for thier blood contract with the devil aka bond to end, then they also nak belah.
hehe yah under the stars...pagi-pagi nantok so type mcm bonggok sikit keke.
*Styli*
I think if u nak jadi SAHm then ur hubi gaji kena POWER. If not susah seh. I dulu pun ada exp cam ur BIL. Very diff life tau. In the end still need to go back to work if not situation will be worst.
*Lynzi*
Ish ish...Faiq overdose on leggings nanti hehe
*Leggings*
So far i tak pernah buy the babylegs tyoe coz looks cam panas. But i got the skidpants, not bad licin and quite cooling. cuma prints dia obit sikit.
*Sharena*
Snaggup keje teacher for ur shopping hehe... my teacher frens also waiting for thier blood contract with the devil aka bond to end, then they also nak belah.
hi everyone
today i lambat sikit masuk office bec nak make sure my boy is ok.. sebab he fell off the bed last nite.. alah.. kesain ye dia.. we were to make sure he is ok,nampak ye Alhamdullilah.
Yesterday memang exciting day la for him, we took him for MRT ride. Excited sekali dia, then samapai Changi Airport nak alight, entah macam mane his right shoe termasuk in between the gap between the door and platform! Dah jatuh kat dalam tunneL! So i told the staff there and they were so helpful. Banyak keje dorang, kena call the station control to get permission to go into the tunnel. Ensure the next train uses the other platfom, then send one guy running into the tunnel with a torchlight... My son tengok org tu lari in the tunnel with torchlight.. terpekik pekik dia excited... so in the end we got the shoe back... Didnt think it wld be so much trouble.. kalau tak i biarkan aje.. my boy pulak with only one shoe dia tak nak jalan.. just stood there and look at his feet yg takde kasut... Exciting la, maklum la sekali sekala naik train.
today i lambat sikit masuk office bec nak make sure my boy is ok.. sebab he fell off the bed last nite.. alah.. kesain ye dia.. we were to make sure he is ok,nampak ye Alhamdullilah.
Yesterday memang exciting day la for him, we took him for MRT ride. Excited sekali dia, then samapai Changi Airport nak alight, entah macam mane his right shoe termasuk in between the gap between the door and platform! Dah jatuh kat dalam tunneL! So i told the staff there and they were so helpful. Banyak keje dorang, kena call the station control to get permission to go into the tunnel. Ensure the next train uses the other platfom, then send one guy running into the tunnel with a torchlight... My son tengok org tu lari in the tunnel with torchlight.. terpekik pekik dia excited... so in the end we got the shoe back... Didnt think it wld be so much trouble.. kalau tak i biarkan aje.. my boy pulak with only one shoe dia tak nak jalan.. just stood there and look at his feet yg takde kasut... Exciting la, maklum la sekali sekala naik train.
Thanks for all concerns.
Personally I never noticed the gap can be a threat.. So now I will take note, hb suke let my boy walk into the train, now no more.. mesti carry him.
He seems fine now. No dah kali ketiga dia fell off the bed, first time was last year during bulan puasa.
Whats the negative thing kalau kite co-sleep with our kids, other than badan sakit kena adjust adjust bile budak tu golek golek at nite..hehehhe
Tadi pagi hb da cakap maybe we shd dismantle the bed and all sleep on tilam on the floor... macam Bangla pulak.. I think bangla pun ade double decker bed..
Personally I never noticed the gap can be a threat.. So now I will take note, hb suke let my boy walk into the train, now no more.. mesti carry him.
He seems fine now. No dah kali ketiga dia fell off the bed, first time was last year during bulan puasa.
Whats the negative thing kalau kite co-sleep with our kids, other than badan sakit kena adjust adjust bile budak tu golek golek at nite..hehehhe
Tadi pagi hb da cakap maybe we shd dismantle the bed and all sleep on tilam on the floor... macam Bangla pulak.. I think bangla pun ade double decker bed..
funkyd1999
New Member
chakkk..hi everyone.i am new..a nice mummy has introduced me to this thread. dah lama i carik ni thread. boleh join?
funkyd1999
New Member
thanks. tak lah. ms ryatie22. ada syarat2 dan pantang larang tak ni thread?.heheh.juz joking.
i am very excited to meet new frenz.
i am very excited to meet new frenz.
funkyd1999
New Member
thanks : )
styliciously
Member
Taglin Mall Flea Market - 2 or 16 August 2008 (Saturday)
Hihi,
Anyone wanna join me n my sister for the flea market on 2 or 26 August 2008? I will be registering for it n hopefully will get the 2 August slot. Me and my sister got alot of stuff, clothes, cds. bags, books etc etc to let go, stuff we dunt want anymore. also, I'm looking to moving so wanna clear my clutter n move less stuff! Rent is $70 for a square on the floor so looking for pple to wanna sell their stuff too so can share cost.
Mostly like foreinger workers esp maids will buy from u. I ever have one before. I will leyong so tat I bring minimal stuff home. http://www.allgreen.com.sg/allgreencorp/project_details.cfm?project_uin=32&menu=events
Details on the webby, contact me if u seriously interested! Mummies free do drop down to support or bargain with me!
so sorry for the interuption.. pls carry on.. hehehe..
Hihi,
Anyone wanna join me n my sister for the flea market on 2 or 26 August 2008? I will be registering for it n hopefully will get the 2 August slot. Me and my sister got alot of stuff, clothes, cds. bags, books etc etc to let go, stuff we dunt want anymore. also, I'm looking to moving so wanna clear my clutter n move less stuff! Rent is $70 for a square on the floor so looking for pple to wanna sell their stuff too so can share cost.
Mostly like foreinger workers esp maids will buy from u. I ever have one before. I will leyong so tat I bring minimal stuff home. http://www.allgreen.com.sg/allgreencorp/project_details.cfm?project_uin=32&menu=events
Details on the webby, contact me if u seriously interested! Mummies free do drop down to support or bargain with me!
so sorry for the interuption.. pls carry on.. hehehe..
*NORTH SIDE MUMMIES*
ladies residing in north side,
its been quite some time since we gather.
wanna meet up one of this days?
if you are interested please state nick, days and roughly the timing so i can plan for one...
Venue: will probably be at breeks causeway point
ps: other mummies from other areas are welcome to join if u gerls are free and don't mind travelling.
ladies residing in north side,
its been quite some time since we gather.
wanna meet up one of this days?
if you are interested please state nick, days and roughly the timing so i can plan for one...
Venue: will probably be at breeks causeway point
ps: other mummies from other areas are welcome to join if u gerls are free and don't mind travelling.
mamaliz
Active Member
hello!!
welcome to the mummies here!!!!
nora...
wahhh..so exciting lah ur day out wif ur boy..i pon kekadang seram biler naik mrt wif my kids, my girl pon kaki pernah termasuk kat gap tu but luckily i was holding her hand n managed to lift her up ASAP...but once i did saw a mummy who never hold her dotters hands n left her to walk by herself n the same thing happen, worst was that the girl jatuh n the parents tak pandang belakang pon! Luckily she managed to get up in time b4 the door closes....kecut perut wen i saw that!
Lynzi...
date n time u all plan lahh , i see if i can make it tak...hehehe, im so excited now , wednesday gonna sign OTP wif the owner at that house!!!
welcome to the mummies here!!!!
nora...
wahhh..so exciting lah ur day out wif ur boy..i pon kekadang seram biler naik mrt wif my kids, my girl pon kaki pernah termasuk kat gap tu but luckily i was holding her hand n managed to lift her up ASAP...but once i did saw a mummy who never hold her dotters hands n left her to walk by herself n the same thing happen, worst was that the girl jatuh n the parents tak pandang belakang pon! Luckily she managed to get up in time b4 the door closes....kecut perut wen i saw that!
Lynzi...
date n time u all plan lahh , i see if i can make it tak...hehehe, im so excited now , wednesday gonna sign OTP wif the owner at that house!!!
smalldreams
Active Member
funkydd99, welcome! How old is yr...erm, dd, I assume?
styliciously
Wow, I like flea marts! Dulu time student, I did sell some stuff over there. I have some stuff to clear...tapi I rasa tak laku ah ... nanti kena angkut barang2 tu balik pulak! Kalau I join, how much space would I get, and how much rent would I have to pay?
Lynzi
Wow, so fun lah, ada gathering! How about the eastern mummies? I've yet to meet anyone here, actually
Nora
Wow, ehhe adventure habis eh the train ride? And it's not even an MRT ride yet kan? Hehee... selama ni dia naik apa? Car-rides ajer eh?
styliciously
Wow, I like flea marts! Dulu time student, I did sell some stuff over there. I have some stuff to clear...tapi I rasa tak laku ah ... nanti kena angkut barang2 tu balik pulak! Kalau I join, how much space would I get, and how much rent would I have to pay?
Lynzi
Wow, so fun lah, ada gathering! How about the eastern mummies? I've yet to meet anyone here, actually
Nora
Wow, ehhe adventure habis eh the train ride? And it's not even an MRT ride yet kan? Hehee... selama ni dia naik apa? Car-rides ajer eh?
naqia
kite naik MRT tau. hb even bought his first ez link card ($15 sooo... expensive hor). My boy tu memang kemaruk dgn train and planes. Weekends petang kalau no where to go then we will go to changi beach. abt 6pm banyak planes landing, it will go right on top of our heads tau. When travelling kalau he nampak MRT tracks he will ask his dad to stop the car.
mamaliz
da dapat rumah impian eh... good luck, sekarang boleh pikir reno pulak..
new mommies
welcome to this thread... join us la sembang sembang
styli
i pun banyak barang nak lego... tapi tak pernah pulak join flea market, roughly how much u price ur things? like handbags,shoes, baju, so i can have a rough gauge.
kite naik MRT tau. hb even bought his first ez link card ($15 sooo... expensive hor). My boy tu memang kemaruk dgn train and planes. Weekends petang kalau no where to go then we will go to changi beach. abt 6pm banyak planes landing, it will go right on top of our heads tau. When travelling kalau he nampak MRT tracks he will ask his dad to stop the car.
mamaliz
da dapat rumah impian eh... good luck, sekarang boleh pikir reno pulak..
new mommies
welcome to this thread... join us la sembang sembang
styli
i pun banyak barang nak lego... tapi tak pernah pulak join flea market, roughly how much u price ur things? like handbags,shoes, baju, so i can have a rough gauge.
*faizah aka funkyd1999*
welcome to the thread ;-)
*nab*
bukan Sharena jer sanggup kerja utk shoppin..i pun expecially on line shopping..cos it's more "quieter".
*mademoiselle*
i love belgium waffles..last sunday tot of going there but luper bawak addy..then we tried call ur hubby tak dapat la....if dun mind can PM me his no..bilang dia house mate dia RINDU kat dia..kekkekekek
Oniata preggy...her 1st n 2nd child age same as mine...so her 3rd one la...i also admire who can let their child sleep on their own..4 me peanat la nak bangun especially if u BF fully.
*nora*
lucky ur son ok..hari tu my stroller almost stuck at the gap also....i find the gap too wide ..wat u all think??
*betty bad*
ah..youth day nex monday...hope tak banyak org cos i on MC tat day nak keluar gi check up kat TMC...suker la TEACHERS2x kat sini
*lynzi*
kalau timing ok i'll join u all.....
welcome to the thread ;-)
*nab*
bukan Sharena jer sanggup kerja utk shoppin..i pun expecially on line shopping..cos it's more "quieter".
*mademoiselle*
i love belgium waffles..last sunday tot of going there but luper bawak addy..then we tried call ur hubby tak dapat la....if dun mind can PM me his no..bilang dia house mate dia RINDU kat dia..kekkekekek
Oniata preggy...her 1st n 2nd child age same as mine...so her 3rd one la...i also admire who can let their child sleep on their own..4 me peanat la nak bangun especially if u BF fully.
*nora*
lucky ur son ok..hari tu my stroller almost stuck at the gap also....i find the gap too wide ..wat u all think??
*betty bad*
ah..youth day nex monday...hope tak banyak org cos i on MC tat day nak keluar gi check up kat TMC...suker la TEACHERS2x kat sini
*lynzi*
kalau timing ok i'll join u all.....
*nor*
not sure if all the NTUC outlets have Sippah. think outlets sell some diff things. like I used to buy Neosure for my prem baby. not all outlet ada. $1.85 BP price is ok. its abt the same lah.
i love ur defination of SAHM and FTWM heheh. true FTWM ada orang nak tolong spend money. not just hubby aje nak tolong
*yasminy*
ur defination pun i suka. FTWM - forced to work mum heheh. patutnya women tak payah kerja kan. lelaki yg tanggung semua. patutnya lah, tapi realiti differrent. well some women like to work. tapi money shld be all theirs.
I dun mind babysitter if once in a while. thk my hubby does though. he rather MIL jaga. tapi she workin and to negotiate her hrs when she free -I pening. time management susah nanti if nak kena negotiate. its hard enuff!
*naddy*
I'm serving my 1mth notice. next week tuesday last day. I really dunno how going to cope, terjun tengok cam na. I already save $, did as much backup as I can. tapi just have to dive in and cuba. I also asking myself if will regret and how it will be. takut sih. lose finance independence is a big thing to me. tapi kalau tak buat gini, I will regret too coz not enuff time with my girl. my line,IT, cannot take break too long. nanti 'obselete'. tak boleh cari kerja gini lagi. once tak keep up, even a year- value dah drop. tapi boleh naik gila trying to keep up. penatlah. I dun want to join e race anymore. If I can take unpaid leave for years, I definately do that.
I will be doing some freelance work from him. so WAHM and SAHM hehe. hope it ok. kalau tak ok, FTWM balik arghhh!
*smalldreams*
hubby 50-50 involved meaning sometimes I pass to him - he take care also, other times he ask me to pass to my parents who we live with. malam2 - if need to make milk, he will wake up and help coz my girl bising if I go. I'd love for him to be more involved. dun understand why when i ask him if he can take care for 1-2hrs on the weekend, he will say he go visit his mum and let her take care. He seem to think his mum sure can take care my baby tapi my gerl tak biasa dengan dia as from young, only me and my mum jaga. I pun tak comfy rite now as she is still young 1yr. nanti dia older sikit bolehlah. I guess he want to kill 2 birds with 1 stone. whereas I geram sikit - coz I nak dia take care, not MIL! arghhh.. I dun want to be dependent on MIL. nanti jadi cerita lain. dah cukup I depend my mum
*danryan*
kesihannya semua sakit sampai kat hosp. hope semue dah sihat!
*styli*
pasal SAHM, takde cukup duit : really depends on money management tu. ada orang SAHM even hubby dun earn much tapi boleh handle. some hubby take more than 1 job so that can manage. ada orang with SAHM tak pandai manage - then problem lah.
ada orang both hubby and wife FTWM kerja - pun finance issue pasal tak pandai manage. have u read the article before - some rich people gaji tinggi, rumah besar ? tapi tak bayar maid pasal tak cukup duit.
dun think root cause is SAHM tapi money planning and management. I think its also the guy responsibilty - mesti pandai manage and plan. think being head of family-pun nak kena plan for potential problems. like save Xmths salary incase got retrenched. couple shld know if cannot SAHM, woman, terpaksalah kerja. its not easy, tapi tangggungjawab memang susah. kena ikhtiar.
kalau tak cukup duit, the guy shld also keep upgrade himself to get better job. not take it for granted women tolong either. women pun ada impt things to focus on, not just finance. kan he's head of family. there is reason for that.
money is dual edge sword. it makes u independent, but in some way terikat, dependent pasal expected to bayar this that. sometimes cant say no coz of obligations. then cant do things like u like eg. spending more time with kids, or do those craft hobbies. I have been financially independent all these yrs tapi sometime its not freedom, sometimes its too heavy.
sori long post. bab ni i memang frustrated.
not sure if all the NTUC outlets have Sippah. think outlets sell some diff things. like I used to buy Neosure for my prem baby. not all outlet ada. $1.85 BP price is ok. its abt the same lah.
i love ur defination of SAHM and FTWM heheh. true FTWM ada orang nak tolong spend money. not just hubby aje nak tolong
*yasminy*
ur defination pun i suka. FTWM - forced to work mum heheh. patutnya women tak payah kerja kan. lelaki yg tanggung semua. patutnya lah, tapi realiti differrent. well some women like to work. tapi money shld be all theirs.
I dun mind babysitter if once in a while. thk my hubby does though. he rather MIL jaga. tapi she workin and to negotiate her hrs when she free -I pening. time management susah nanti if nak kena negotiate. its hard enuff!
*naddy*
I'm serving my 1mth notice. next week tuesday last day. I really dunno how going to cope, terjun tengok cam na. I already save $, did as much backup as I can. tapi just have to dive in and cuba. I also asking myself if will regret and how it will be. takut sih. lose finance independence is a big thing to me. tapi kalau tak buat gini, I will regret too coz not enuff time with my girl. my line,IT, cannot take break too long. nanti 'obselete'. tak boleh cari kerja gini lagi. once tak keep up, even a year- value dah drop. tapi boleh naik gila trying to keep up. penatlah. I dun want to join e race anymore. If I can take unpaid leave for years, I definately do that.
I will be doing some freelance work from him. so WAHM and SAHM hehe. hope it ok. kalau tak ok, FTWM balik arghhh!
*smalldreams*
hubby 50-50 involved meaning sometimes I pass to him - he take care also, other times he ask me to pass to my parents who we live with. malam2 - if need to make milk, he will wake up and help coz my girl bising if I go. I'd love for him to be more involved. dun understand why when i ask him if he can take care for 1-2hrs on the weekend, he will say he go visit his mum and let her take care. He seem to think his mum sure can take care my baby tapi my gerl tak biasa dengan dia as from young, only me and my mum jaga. I pun tak comfy rite now as she is still young 1yr. nanti dia older sikit bolehlah. I guess he want to kill 2 birds with 1 stone. whereas I geram sikit - coz I nak dia take care, not MIL! arghhh.. I dun want to be dependent on MIL. nanti jadi cerita lain. dah cukup I depend my mum
*danryan*
kesihannya semua sakit sampai kat hosp. hope semue dah sihat!
*styli*
pasal SAHM, takde cukup duit : really depends on money management tu. ada orang SAHM even hubby dun earn much tapi boleh handle. some hubby take more than 1 job so that can manage. ada orang with SAHM tak pandai manage - then problem lah.
ada orang both hubby and wife FTWM kerja - pun finance issue pasal tak pandai manage. have u read the article before - some rich people gaji tinggi, rumah besar ? tapi tak bayar maid pasal tak cukup duit.
dun think root cause is SAHM tapi money planning and management. I think its also the guy responsibilty - mesti pandai manage and plan. think being head of family-pun nak kena plan for potential problems. like save Xmths salary incase got retrenched. couple shld know if cannot SAHM, woman, terpaksalah kerja. its not easy, tapi tangggungjawab memang susah. kena ikhtiar.
kalau tak cukup duit, the guy shld also keep upgrade himself to get better job. not take it for granted women tolong either. women pun ada impt things to focus on, not just finance. kan he's head of family. there is reason for that.
money is dual edge sword. it makes u independent, but in some way terikat, dependent pasal expected to bayar this that. sometimes cant say no coz of obligations. then cant do things like u like eg. spending more time with kids, or do those craft hobbies. I have been financially independent all these yrs tapi sometime its not freedom, sometimes its too heavy.
sori long post. bab ni i memang frustrated.
hi daec
memang long post.. tapi takpe... kite semue dun mind
wish u all the best with being WAHM. This is the best arrangement la, me pun tak bole take unpaid leave etc. So keje aje la.. but i dun mind working, plus i dun think i can handle jage kids 24/7.
After working for 6 yrs i took a year off. Ingatkan time tu nak concentrate on procreation, tapi tak menjadi.. so after a year i went back to work. That time before i quit i betul betul jage my expenses, make sure i got some money put away for emergencies and also my CC all cleared. There's a lot of things that I made do without which were not necesary to begin with, amazing.. ni semue nafsu la.
Tapi nak dekat satu tahun i duduk rumah betul betul punye takde value add.. i still cant cook, i didnt conceive... no new skill acquired... it doesnt help that during that time my dad buat perangai, and my mom yg of ill-health went into depression... so takdir Tuhan, i spent most of my time caring for my mom and settling my parents' legal matters..
memang long post.. tapi takpe... kite semue dun mind
wish u all the best with being WAHM. This is the best arrangement la, me pun tak bole take unpaid leave etc. So keje aje la.. but i dun mind working, plus i dun think i can handle jage kids 24/7.
After working for 6 yrs i took a year off. Ingatkan time tu nak concentrate on procreation, tapi tak menjadi.. so after a year i went back to work. That time before i quit i betul betul jage my expenses, make sure i got some money put away for emergencies and also my CC all cleared. There's a lot of things that I made do without which were not necesary to begin with, amazing.. ni semue nafsu la.
Tapi nak dekat satu tahun i duduk rumah betul betul punye takde value add.. i still cant cook, i didnt conceive... no new skill acquired... it doesnt help that during that time my dad buat perangai, and my mom yg of ill-health went into depression... so takdir Tuhan, i spent most of my time caring for my mom and settling my parents' legal matters..
smalldreams
Active Member
daec
Panjang lebar takpe...kan this space is for moral support & lending a listening ear to rants too
As for my hub, I guess he tries to jaga, tapi his attention span (referring to my hub, not my 1 yr old)is very short. And he conveniently says baby tak mo dgn dia, tapi only want to stick with me. Haiz... I told him one day I'd want him to jaga my baby while I go out with my friends. Hehe, take turns ah! I need to recharge too right, kalau tak..makin beruban seh.
Where r u working? Enjoy the rest of yr worklife before you become a SAHM
Styli
Oh, I just saw the time for the flea mart is till 11 pm. I rasa, for sure no stamina lah nak stay that long. Mana dgn my 1 yr old! And my hub tak confident nak handle dia lama2 sangat. Grrr..
Nora
How many months' income would need to be prepared before one quits to be SAHM mom eh? I rasa for now, my savings, only slightly more than 2 mths ajer
So pathetic seh, sebab ada aje I spend. Sighs...
Anyway walaupun u didn't really achieve what you set out to during yr NPL, I guess there are other things you managed to accomplish, rahmat jugak
Panjang lebar takpe...kan this space is for moral support & lending a listening ear to rants too
As for my hub, I guess he tries to jaga, tapi his attention span (referring to my hub, not my 1 yr old)is very short. And he conveniently says baby tak mo dgn dia, tapi only want to stick with me. Haiz... I told him one day I'd want him to jaga my baby while I go out with my friends. Hehe, take turns ah! I need to recharge too right, kalau tak..makin beruban seh.
Where r u working? Enjoy the rest of yr worklife before you become a SAHM
Styli
Oh, I just saw the time for the flea mart is till 11 pm. I rasa, for sure no stamina lah nak stay that long. Mana dgn my 1 yr old! And my hub tak confident nak handle dia lama2 sangat. Grrr..
Nora
How many months' income would need to be prepared before one quits to be SAHM mom eh? I rasa for now, my savings, only slightly more than 2 mths ajer
Anyway walaupun u didn't really achieve what you set out to during yr NPL, I guess there are other things you managed to accomplish, rahmat jugak
hottiemama
Member
afternoon ibu mummy mama umis semua,
long time never drop by this thread... wow!!! so many issues and stories and all.. tak leh keep track.. kalo nak baca suma sampai besok pun tak habis lagi.. kekekeke...
out of the topic tat you'all are talking bout.. i want to ask and check out if any of u mummies know of any caterer (halal) that caters good finger food..
My ds b'dae tis coming 27 jul and i'm still looking for catererlah.. tak tau kat mane nak pi cari.. pls help...
me oso SAHM..
have been wrking for 13 yrs lepas tu quit after my 1st miscarriage.. haven't been working since. dah 5 years dah..
toughlah, now with 2 kids n all, like nora say kan, nafsu shoppin ni Tuhan ajelah yang tahu...
duk kat umah ni sometimes ok jugak but most times takde hasil masuk...nak kena think of something to do all the time so tak jadi insane.. hehehehe
okie sape sape yang bole recomend me a good caterer, pls pls help.. ni dah case emergency last minute..thank you in advance..
can also email I kat [email protected]
terimakasih dulu...
long time never drop by this thread... wow!!! so many issues and stories and all.. tak leh keep track.. kalo nak baca suma sampai besok pun tak habis lagi.. kekekeke...
out of the topic tat you'all are talking bout.. i want to ask and check out if any of u mummies know of any caterer (halal) that caters good finger food..
My ds b'dae tis coming 27 jul and i'm still looking for catererlah.. tak tau kat mane nak pi cari.. pls help...
me oso SAHM..
have been wrking for 13 yrs lepas tu quit after my 1st miscarriage.. haven't been working since. dah 5 years dah..
toughlah, now with 2 kids n all, like nora say kan, nafsu shoppin ni Tuhan ajelah yang tahu...
duk kat umah ni sometimes ok jugak but most times takde hasil masuk...nak kena think of something to do all the time so tak jadi insane.. hehehehe
okie sape sape yang bole recomend me a good caterer, pls pls help.. ni dah case emergency last minute..thank you in advance..
can also email I kat [email protected]
terimakasih dulu...