ANY MALAY MUMS HERE?
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<font color="aa00aa">halo gerls!!!
cik nab,
so shocked to hear about your job.
like the gerls said, take it as a blessing in disguise.
maybe u are meant to do greater things.
i think its time for u to stop n smell the roses..hehehe.
smalldreams,
sorry to hear about your loss.
cakap pasal skool ni...i dah register faiq for playgroup to start in next year Jan 2010.
ni pun kiasu just pun down registration fees just to book for a place.
i'm still going to survey another 2 more schools before finally deciding.
by the time he is 4 i have to start becoming PV oredi.
aiming for ACS Junior or Hnery Park..</font>
cik nab,
so shocked to hear about your job.
like the gerls said, take it as a blessing in disguise.
maybe u are meant to do greater things.
i think its time for u to stop n smell the roses..hehehe.
smalldreams,
sorry to hear about your loss.
cakap pasal skool ni...i dah register faiq for playgroup to start in next year Jan 2010.
ni pun kiasu just pun down registration fees just to book for a place.
i'm still going to survey another 2 more schools before finally deciding.
by the time he is 4 i have to start becoming PV oredi.
aiming for ACS Junior or Hnery Park..</font>
mamaliz
Active Member
wow lynzi...urs very advanced planning! soooo ashamed i langsung tak terpikir nak antar hilmi go playgroup....now baru kelam kabut nak masuk kan dia for anything dat i can grab my hands on later...next yr he shud be in nursery but he still hasnt start talking...aiyoh.....scared lahhh
<font color="0000ff"><font size="+2">Morning Ladies..!!</font>
smalldream
my condolences to you and family
Lynzi
i pun dah register for naufal playgroup.. i thot nak start for him tis july, but hb against the idea.. he said too early, so will be starting Jan nx yr.</font>
smalldream
my condolences to you and family
Lynzi
i pun dah register for naufal playgroup.. i thot nak start for him tis july, but hb against the idea.. he said too early, so will be starting Jan nx yr.</font>
wati
Active Member
Selamat Pagi sumer... Talking abt skool. I baru sign Maya up for Tumble Tots weekends classes. From Crawling to Walking stage.
I had 2 sandwiches, 1 slice of mini pizza and 1 teapot of milo. Syukur Alhamdullilah. Sekarang kenyang and nak sleep. Not feeling to good. Got fever and flu now. Eyes watery. And worse is tonite is Mother-In-Law day... aarggh!
I had 2 sandwiches, 1 slice of mini pizza and 1 teapot of milo. Syukur Alhamdullilah. Sekarang kenyang and nak sleep. Not feeling to good. Got fever and flu now. Eyes watery. And worse is tonite is Mother-In-Law day... aarggh!
<font color="aa00aa">liz,
i guess so many years of being in the education field has opened my eyes to many things.
one of which is the importance of education.
i may not be a multi millionaire to leave him with land or fortunes so education is the next best thing to give to him.
and rite now at the age of 15 months i can see that faiq has great absorption abilities.
ajar him once aje he can remember..so we tot why not start sending him for classes first where he can learn thru play.
lagipun i got no choice..ni Jan 2010 start him on playgroup..few months later will switch to half day cc and then to full day cc.
if not, if my ttc goes thru, my mil wont be able to handle a tot and kid alone.</font>
i guess so many years of being in the education field has opened my eyes to many things.
one of which is the importance of education.
i may not be a multi millionaire to leave him with land or fortunes so education is the next best thing to give to him.
and rite now at the age of 15 months i can see that faiq has great absorption abilities.
ajar him once aje he can remember..so we tot why not start sending him for classes first where he can learn thru play.
lagipun i got no choice..ni Jan 2010 start him on playgroup..few months later will switch to half day cc and then to full day cc.
if not, if my ttc goes thru, my mil wont be able to handle a tot and kid alone.</font>
mamaliz
Active Member
JTS
COMMON SIGNS OF MOURNING IN CHILDREN
When they learn of the death of a loved one, children have many of the same physical and emotional responses as adults, but children mourn their loss in different ways. Adults need to be aware of these signs of mourning in order to accurately meet the children's needs. When children's mourning behaviors are wrongly perceived as misbehavior, the children's hurt and confusion may deepen.
Anxiety
Children may lose their sense of security and fear another death or loss. Young children may become clinging or demanding.
Vivid memories
Real or fantasized images related to the death can intrude on other thoughts. Memories can show up as dreams or nightmares.
Sleep difficulty
This is very common. If "sleep" is used to describe death, the child may fear sleeping. Children who cannot mourn the death during the day may have more dreams and nightmares about it.
Sadness and longing
Some children cry. Some don't. Some are sad for a long time; some aren't. Some children try to hide their sadness to protect their parents. Children may long for the loved one, become preoccupied with memories, or may carry an object that reminds them of the deceased. For a while, this can help the child deal with the pain.
Anger and acting out
Children may become very angry at death, God, or adults in general. Or they may be angry at themselves, and somehow feel responsible for the death.
Guilt
Some children believe they are responsible for the death. Some may feel guilty because of a thought or deed. Feelings like, "It was my fault" or "I must have been bad" may cause lingering guilt. The child needs to talk about these feelings and needs your help to understand that they are not true.
School problems
The child may learn more slowly than usual due to difficulties in concentrating, memories, sadness, and grief.
Physical complaints
Common complaints include headaches, stomach aches, and may even include symptoms similar to those of the deceased
COMMON SIGNS OF MOURNING IN CHILDREN
When they learn of the death of a loved one, children have many of the same physical and emotional responses as adults, but children mourn their loss in different ways. Adults need to be aware of these signs of mourning in order to accurately meet the children's needs. When children's mourning behaviors are wrongly perceived as misbehavior, the children's hurt and confusion may deepen.
Anxiety
Children may lose their sense of security and fear another death or loss. Young children may become clinging or demanding.
Vivid memories
Real or fantasized images related to the death can intrude on other thoughts. Memories can show up as dreams or nightmares.
Sleep difficulty
This is very common. If "sleep" is used to describe death, the child may fear sleeping. Children who cannot mourn the death during the day may have more dreams and nightmares about it.
Sadness and longing
Some children cry. Some don't. Some are sad for a long time; some aren't. Some children try to hide their sadness to protect their parents. Children may long for the loved one, become preoccupied with memories, or may carry an object that reminds them of the deceased. For a while, this can help the child deal with the pain.
Anger and acting out
Children may become very angry at death, God, or adults in general. Or they may be angry at themselves, and somehow feel responsible for the death.
Guilt
Some children believe they are responsible for the death. Some may feel guilty because of a thought or deed. Feelings like, "It was my fault" or "I must have been bad" may cause lingering guilt. The child needs to talk about these feelings and needs your help to understand that they are not true.
School problems
The child may learn more slowly than usual due to difficulties in concentrating, memories, sadness, and grief.
Physical complaints
Common complaints include headaches, stomach aches, and may even include symptoms similar to those of the deceased
mamaliz
Active Member
Anxiety- she's grown a bit babyish at times now..
Sleep- now sleep very late...way past midnite..used to be 10pm latest
Sadness- very quiet kind of sadness shown by sarah...
School- not so responsive in class now n show disrespect to certain teachers
i guess my Sarah still in mourning....
Sleep- now sleep very late...way past midnite..used to be 10pm latest
Sadness- very quiet kind of sadness shown by sarah...
School- not so responsive in class now n show disrespect to certain teachers
i guess my Sarah still in mourning....
Good Morning
Not so good for me bec i tak bawak my hp today.. AAARRGGGHHHHHHH!!!!
There's a big void in my life now....
Wati
Izzat joined Tumbletots class since 9mths old. Suke dia. Then pandai panjat panjat.
mamaliz
hilmi, same age grp with Izzat. Izzat will be 3 in July.
Not so good for me bec i tak bawak my hp today.. AAARRGGGHHHHHHH!!!!
There's a big void in my life now....
Wati
Izzat joined Tumbletots class since 9mths old. Suke dia. Then pandai panjat panjat.
mamaliz
hilmi, same age grp with Izzat. Izzat will be 3 in July.
<font color="aa00aa">wati,
tuble tots is good for active tots like our kiddos..hehehe..
i realised faiq is easier to handle when he started going for classes.
now he is doing GUG, Kindermusik and swimming..for gym we just bring him to gym ourselves once a week.
he will stop GUG in June and start on LNT and ZooPhonics in July.
liz,
u can consider to send hilmi for classes if u still prefer him to be at home.
if nak familiarise him to school then u can look around for playgroups.</font>
tuble tots is good for active tots like our kiddos..hehehe..
i realised faiq is easier to handle when he started going for classes.
now he is doing GUG, Kindermusik and swimming..for gym we just bring him to gym ourselves once a week.
he will stop GUG in June and start on LNT and ZooPhonics in July.
liz,
u can consider to send hilmi for classes if u still prefer him to be at home.
if nak familiarise him to school then u can look around for playgroups.</font>
<font color="aa00aa">lynn, nora aw,
dah baguslah u gerls today..semua accidents involving hp.
wati,
GUG is growing up gifted..its at novena sq.
LNT is little neuro tree..they have 5 or 6 branches islandwide.
liz,
in woodlands ada learning vision, kinderland, cherie hearts, and lots of ntuc ones around..even got iman.</font>
dah baguslah u gerls today..semua accidents involving hp.
wati,
GUG is growing up gifted..its at novena sq.
LNT is little neuro tree..they have 5 or 6 branches islandwide.
liz,
in woodlands ada learning vision, kinderland, cherie hearts, and lots of ntuc ones around..even got iman.</font>
<font color="119911">morning..
still on school topic? hehe takpe lah to those yg lum start slowly k..
im even worst tau my girl is cmg 4 bt yet she noes her ABC, tulis, clrg, counting hancai smua.. so now i nak masukkan dia school pun in fear coz all e kids wld hv been smarter than her & ill only enrol her for nx yr which means she will b in K1 seh... haiz..</font>
still on school topic? hehe takpe lah to those yg lum start slowly k..
im even worst tau my girl is cmg 4 bt yet she noes her ABC, tulis, clrg, counting hancai smua.. so now i nak masukkan dia school pun in fear coz all e kids wld hv been smarter than her & ill only enrol her for nx yr which means she will b in K1 seh... haiz..</font>
eliza_hairi
New Member
good morning mummies...
nshahi,
u jgn stress la pasal ur gal. She will catch up for sure. Dulu i pernah masuk kan my gal in dos baby programmes. after a semester i tak continue, coz i think d things they do, parents leh ajar sendiri.
U can buy dos books used in nursery or kindergarten kat Popular. Mcm2 ader!! and it's cheap... buat ur gal 'practice' kat umah.
nshahi,
u jgn stress la pasal ur gal. She will catch up for sure. Dulu i pernah masuk kan my gal in dos baby programmes. after a semester i tak continue, coz i think d things they do, parents leh ajar sendiri.
U can buy dos books used in nursery or kindergarten kat Popular. Mcm2 ader!! and it's cheap... buat ur gal 'practice' kat umah.
<font color="119911">sabrina
bukan tak beli u.. beli bertimbun2 bermacam2 buku i bought for her, her papa lain.. coz we r starting to panic coz she still lambat in picking up.. bt u noe wat she do? either she nak buat sendiri w/o supervision or she will happily koyak2 kan buku2 tu smua.. mana dia belajar pun kita tak tau heran tul
dan
a'ah masih square2 lah smlm pi bugis mak datok so much has changed at e B1 lvl seh hehe cam rusa masuk kampung gue</font>
bukan tak beli u.. beli bertimbun2 bermacam2 buku i bought for her, her papa lain.. coz we r starting to panic coz she still lambat in picking up.. bt u noe wat she do? either she nak buat sendiri w/o supervision or she will happily koyak2 kan buku2 tu smua.. mana dia belajar pun kita tak tau heran tul
dan
a'ah masih square2 lah smlm pi bugis mak datok so much has changed at e B1 lvl seh hehe cam rusa masuk kampung gue</font>
wati
Active Member
Shahlynn... Nadia ? Yes.. She sms me yesterday.. So do i get discount ? Hehehe...
Lynzi.. thanks for the info.
Nora / Lynn... satu lupa hp satu lagi rosak.. hehehe... Recently my hubby hp tertinggal dlm taxi.. terus burn seh... my advise to all.. Jgn naik taxi hitam with yellow top cos they do not have the paging system.
Lynzi.. thanks for the info.
Nora / Lynn... satu lupa hp satu lagi rosak.. hehehe... Recently my hubby hp tertinggal dlm taxi.. terus burn seh... my advise to all.. Jgn naik taxi hitam with yellow top cos they do not have the paging system.
