Hi,
Can anyone pls advise me? My husband has been pressing me for a divorce. He asked me to settle everything peacefully. I will get DD but he insisted on a maintenance sum of $500 per mth. He said becoz he is a salesman, he got no fixed income(basic 1200+commission). Plus he is ard 40k in debt(credit card bills) and he owns a car. And even if i try to file for higher alimony in court, i will be on the losing end as his colleague who is in a similar situation, ended up paying his wife only 200/mth instead of the 300 she requested. But the 2 years of my husband's NOA shows ard 40+k. Does this help?
I am a SAHM and my DD is only 1+. I hope to get 1k for maintenance while I try to secure a job and send DD to childcare. But he said it's impossible as he got to plan for himself, wanted to purchase a cheap condo unit to stay in as after the sale of our hse, he got no roof. So if he were to give me 1k in maintenance, he do not have enough $ to plan for his future. And he refused to move back into his parents hse.
And the reason for the divorce, he got a vietnam girl outside. But he insisted that the reason for divorce is due to our differences. I do not have the $ to hire a PI to gather evidence.
I am very lost now. Any kind souls to offer me advices? Thanks.