hi all! i need to vent!!!
on sat, i took my kids out in the morn(8-12), HB work and so i told her to clean bicycle(actually tricycle but only cycle at home) plus some other stuff(clean floor skirting and switches). sun evening i found the tricycle basket still very dusty so i asked her. was rather angry cos 4hrs and only 3 tasks and still not done. she went to the storerm, i have another bicycle there, and started cleaning the handle and horn. i was damn pissed and asked her if the bicycle got basket, she replied i asked her to clean. i kept asking her if there is a basket, yes or no. then i said either you are seeing things or i am blind. then i showed her the tricycle. when i showed her what to do on fri nite and sat morn, i never went into the storerm and she knows very well i have 2 bi/tricycles.
never mind, i called home while in church and found the hse line engaged. then i just on and off miss-call home. never confront her abt this.
yesterday, i asked her if she ever went out of the hse or use the hse phone without my knowledge. if yes, tell me now or i will angry if kena found out. she flatly denied then said got ppl keep ringing the hse line on sun but she forgot to tell me. i kept asking her tell me honest, but she claimed never do anything behind our backs.
i scolded her for not emptying my son's bag properly cos the mattress cover was still in the bag and she should be alerted cos she knows what to pack for them and what to wash every nite.
she was looking at the employment agencies ads like want to go back to agency. so i asked her if she is planning to leave. i was already very angry with her not being honest with me, missing out items from kids' bags, standing at the window and looking out like some love-sick puppy, not being able to plan the cooking timing (esp spinach soup, want to boil at 4pm, already told her 4.50pm since kids' dinner at 5.30pm) despite of repeated reminders (worse if i cook and she will faster want to cook rice and spinach, start cooking at 4pm so when finish frying at 4.20pm still got time to mop kitchen floor before kids back).
SO.... she started packing her stuff at 7.15pm and claimed that she wants go back to agency. i told her kids at home, not now and only tomolo morn, she can somemore tell me only closed at 8pm. called agency, they say settle tomolo cos they are closing. dun care her, she must have regretted cos she went to wash kids' stuff before we could stop her. i kept all the keys cos worried she will run away.
this morn again tell me go agency now, i sent kids to childcare and was mopping floor. i told her not opened but if she wants we can take a cab now, agency open i pay cab fare agency not opened she pay. then she say want to continue work cos dun want to transfer cos of the additional transfer fee. then say easy for me cos got unlimited replacement. i told her i am seriously thinking of not hiring and i will lose S$750+ and levey until she finds a new employer. she confessed to calling agent when i asked her again, she claimed she was too frightened to tell me yesterday.
WTH, i told her before finding out abt calling agent to be honest with me and even asked her if she got any requests or questions. talked to her nicely, she only told me want to write home.
never mind! she then tell me dun want go agency want go embassy. i said no, you go back agency. she ya-ya tell me she will find her own way to embassy to complain abt being transferred. said that back in PH recuritment centre, never know abt the transfer charges