Mummies, my maid, who is the one asking for transfer.. given reason that my 3yrs old girl cry for me(she is fullday CC,so an excuses)..as my toddler already accept maid,can play,shower,eat,sleep with maid. VERY SURE IS EXCUSES..she is choosy(I didnt raise my voice at maid even she is very dirty,lazy)..as she is the main caregiver to my toddler,just want maid to take good care of her,that is my minimun requirement..closed both eyes on her hse work..
Yesterday, I meet a Malay lady stay below my block, she told me, my maid actually approach her, asking her to hire my maid, and complain to her about my family, said my house very dirty, when the malay lady heard..she was thinking that is my maid's job,where she is not cleaning n complaining..the nice lady ask me to change my maid,saying she dont even know each other or whether this lady know me and dare to just tell anyone about my hse.
I told agent,now I'm the one that want to change maid,see this is what maid did for me..I havent complain about her, closed eyes yet she told outside about me,I dont feel good. next time I go out,ppl have another kind of look at me if really misunderstand.
part 2, agent is looking for employer for my maid, there was an interview, before the employer can ask further more,my maid asked to speak to agent..the employer(malay,cos maid only want to work w malay) asked, I have 4children and will deliver the 5th in OCT'08..my maid immediately reply hrr!..called agent..
So my agent scold maid up n down,at least respect,listen finish...yet maid said only want to work less children(maybe2) n prefer older children dont want bb..then agent asked do u make friend, and talk nonsense with outside ppl? maid still want to lie and said no no..so agent scold her again,dont let me know you talk to other.. you better do your work properly..now get back to work.
Then agent talk to me..what was happening. All, I just told agent..I have to torelate till I come back from my USA trip, am going next wk for 2weeks.So my children is in maid's care.
After hang up. My maid immediately, cried,hold my hand, asking for forgiveness, saying she talk bad to other..and she just want to work with me now. Too drama, I dont feel sincere from her.. when I think of my toddler, i just feel so sad..if I keep this maid,just because my toddler want her. maid cant cook, dirty(she lazy didnt clean hse properly n told other we are dirty), dont bother about hse work..9pm,straight go to rest,as long children sleep, she bochap,even didnt finish hse chores.