tamarind,
thanks for the website! very useful.
annlee,
my maid is usally very careful when taking care of my dd. but there was one time my dd was on the swing at home, and my maid was standing next to her (i was in the kitchen washing my hands, but i can see them from where i am). instead of watching my dd, my maid's eyes was on the tv. then my dd fell off the swing, head first, hitting her head on the floor! luckily my floor is wooden floor and not cement! my dd cried and cried. i rushed over to carry her, then can tell my maid quite shocked and scared liao. i scolded the maid, told her must watch my dd carefully and not be so careless. then to show my maid that this is a serious mistake (when she first came i did tell her that when it comes to my dd i won't tolerate any mistakes), i immed called my hubby at work and told him what happened. then when he came home he questioned the maid (hubby usually doesn't get involved in maid issues, he will leave it to me to deal with her), and gave her a mini-lecture. after that incident my maid is very careful liao when watching my dd, cause she knows we mean business when it comes to my dd's welfare and safety.