2WW - for those TTC-ing
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feifei>sorry after posting i log off and went back to mum hse le,mum hse no pc.
gnny>thank for the warm welcome.
gnny>thank for the warm welcome.
ylang_ylang
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i oso feel u all gals said are correct,cos july till aug,i oso dun noe when my o ,then just bd quite often,and till i detect my o ,think hubby spermies already nt strong enough to fertizie the egg already....but spermies cannot b stored too long oso,before o must have fresh supply of spermies.
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gillian> guys are about the same,bfore my first o ,hubby oso seem like let nature take it own course,when i eas so excited that i dectected my o ,but he seem like...oh dectect ar,like tat lor attitute,but after my fail cycle ,when he saw how sad and disappointed i m,and i had put in so much hard work ,to test opk every day,bbt,i told him,men will alway cannot feel how we feel and how much we had done for ttc,then he started to be more coperative and sensitive,he even help me to do my bbd chart.now we even try nt to bd until i detect my o,i juz keeping my finger cross ,for my this cycle,o wun come so late like last month.
Hi Ceraine
Haha... I wish there is a timing for tell us when O.. but no lor.. our body wun tell.. Thats why Dr Cheng said 12hrs after test OPK +ve.. but then, he told me no worry, cos i often test in the night too.. He said usually we O from 12hrs to 36 hrs... so even we test late, its still falls between 12-36hrs window..
But then i m super KS de.. when around O date, i tested twice per day... everytime i did this,i manage to catch my +ve OPK at 8pm in the night...
Ya.. same.. last cycle i had +OPK for 1 day.. this cycle 2 days... really make me difficult to know when shall I BD...
Hi Gillian
Yes, my gynae when he said insert water, meaning semen n no spermie as not in time for the spermie to produce. Its not easy to tong 3 days.. today is my hb 3rd day of shooting.. i wipe from some of the outflow.. compare to the 1st day of shooting n 3rd day i can slight difference.. more dilute... so i really hope this month can strike.. think its also all fated too.. sigh!
Haha... I wish there is a timing for tell us when O.. but no lor.. our body wun tell.. Thats why Dr Cheng said 12hrs after test OPK +ve.. but then, he told me no worry, cos i often test in the night too.. He said usually we O from 12hrs to 36 hrs... so even we test late, its still falls between 12-36hrs window..
But then i m super KS de.. when around O date, i tested twice per day... everytime i did this,i manage to catch my +ve OPK at 8pm in the night...
Ya.. same.. last cycle i had +OPK for 1 day.. this cycle 2 days... really make me difficult to know when shall I BD...
Hi Gillian
Yes, my gynae when he said insert water, meaning semen n no spermie as not in time for the spermie to produce. Its not easy to tong 3 days.. today is my hb 3rd day of shooting.. i wipe from some of the outflow.. compare to the 1st day of shooting n 3rd day i can slight difference.. more dilute... so i really hope this month can strike.. think its also all fated too.. sigh!
ya i also agree that BD-ing too often very the shiong... esp when HB knows its "sex on demand".. usually HB will be more kan cheong when he knows its the crucial period for making baby... BD will not be as pleasuring... its like a donation of spermies... hehehe... we usually BD straight for 3 days after the last +ve OPK... it will be good to keep testing OPK until it turns -ve.. at least we know we have O liao... but still must BD one last time when it turn -ve.. as an insurance BD....
magpie
didnt see your postings... hope u are alrite... miss chatting with u... i believe u are taking a break off from this forum... i understand... sometimes the postings here will make us too into the tcc-ing thingy... but still hope to hear from u.... hope can chat with u soon... be back once u feel a little better ok!
magpie
didnt see your postings... hope u are alrite... miss chatting with u... i believe u are taking a break off from this forum... i understand... sometimes the postings here will make us too into the tcc-ing thingy... but still hope to hear from u.... hope can chat with u soon... be back once u feel a little better ok!
Morning ladies!
*feifei reporting to class*
Ask u all hor,yest morning 8.30am I tested +ve and got a smiley face on my clearblue OPK . I tested with my OPK again yest at 10pm, this time it is a -ve. How come will like that huh? Tot +ve should last at least one day?? Dun tell me I have already O?
babe79,
True lor...We feel the stress...our Hbs also will feel stress cos they know they have a mission on hand lor....
Duno y my this cycle, tested +ve in the morning, at nite, becomes -ve liao...haiz.duno wats wrong also....
*feifei reporting to class*
Ask u all hor,yest morning 8.30am I tested +ve and got a smiley face on my clearblue OPK . I tested with my OPK again yest at 10pm, this time it is a -ve. How come will like that huh? Tot +ve should last at least one day?? Dun tell me I have already O?
babe79,
True lor...We feel the stress...our Hbs also will feel stress cos they know they have a mission on hand lor....
Duno y my this cycle, tested +ve in the morning, at nite, becomes -ve liao...haiz.duno wats wrong also....
Morning gals....
Mrs Chew
u asked me about my mense induce? Actually it's all becos that by CD21, dr cheng checked my egg follicle and the biggest was only 9mm which is not even ready for ovulation to take place and the womb lining has already thicken. It's not good even if I conceive that late. So he wants me to induce my mense to come so that the lining will not be too thick by the time my mense come. Cos he expected my mense will come late if I dont induce my mense, and it will turn out to be v painful cramp when my mense come. So this cycle, i have no choice but only to forego. Well now, I can only wait for the next cycle for me to start again...
Mrs Chew
u asked me about my mense induce? Actually it's all becos that by CD21, dr cheng checked my egg follicle and the biggest was only 9mm which is not even ready for ovulation to take place and the womb lining has already thicken. It's not good even if I conceive that late. So he wants me to induce my mense to come so that the lining will not be too thick by the time my mense come. Cos he expected my mense will come late if I dont induce my mense, and it will turn out to be v painful cramp when my mense come. So this cycle, i have no choice but only to forego. Well now, I can only wait for the next cycle for me to start again...
fei fei,
did you test on friday?
u mean u tested both on Sat morning and night?
seems like you've ovuluted..but no worries, if u wana play safe, have insurance BD today as well.
and has ure BBT shot?
Like what gillian and Dr Cheng mention, +ve OPK detects only the surge, and by -ve does not means ovluluated liao.not necessarily that egg is released.
Egg release is detected by a thermal shift.
did you test on friday?
u mean u tested both on Sat morning and night?
seems like you've ovuluted..but no worries, if u wana play safe, have insurance BD today as well.
and has ure BBT shot?
Like what gillian and Dr Cheng mention, +ve OPK detects only the surge, and by -ve does not means ovluluated liao.not necessarily that egg is released.
Egg release is detected by a thermal shift.
Hi liz, yup, better today
When next O approaching, i shall see how to tackle my hubby, haha...
I'm also using that technique too for next cycle and if still no news, i will still BD when i get +ve OPK but will be alternate... meaning BD on that +ve OPK day, rest a day and do it again the next day. each month try different ways and see which one is the heng one for me, haha
I'm also using that technique too for next cycle and if still no news, i will still BD when i get +ve OPK but will be alternate... meaning BD on that +ve OPK day, rest a day and do it again the next day. each month try different ways and see which one is the heng one for me, haha
Morning ladies... i just read the posting for the past few days... wow, so many things happened. I din manage to login as well as I was very unwell. Puking madly. :'( I think its not easy to be preggie and even preggie, some ladies have it easy with no MS at all and a smooth pregnancy while the rest have bad MS and gets emotional. I guess we all have to be sensitive to one another... huggies! Tis place is where we get our support from one another, so lets keep it dat way ok!
wannababy and feifei, I think feifei will O today or latest tmr. So wish her luck. She shld oso try to BD one last time just b4 she flys off on the 12th for insurance.
wannababy and feifei, I think feifei will O today or latest tmr. So wish her luck. She shld oso try to BD one last time just b4 she flys off on the 12th for insurance.
Ceraine and liz dear,
Me tested +ve on sun moring , but -ve yest nite lor... Both fri and sat was a -ve...My temp for sat was 36.4, yest was 36.7 and this morning 36.4.
Jaspire,
Oh dear...u okie? MS sounds bad leh...*sayang sayang*
Ya lor, will BD again tonite and tmr lor =)...Tks ger...
Me tested +ve on sun moring , but -ve yest nite lor... Both fri and sat was a -ve...My temp for sat was 36.4, yest was 36.7 and this morning 36.4.
Jaspire,
Oh dear...u okie? MS sounds bad leh...*sayang sayang*
Ya lor, will BD again tonite and tmr lor =)...Tks ger...
feifei and liz, ya my MS is very bad. I can oni cry to myself. My tears always welled up when i puke. :'( Dunno wat is best. I din know its so bad and xin ku... never felt so lousy in my whole life. Actually today oso dun feel like coming to work but bo bian. Haiz... but i will jia you, try to make myself happier. Its hard but have to try.
hi gals.. have been following the thread for a while but never post...
do u all feel very irritated / peck chek during ur 2ww huh?? find dat i haf quite a bad mood swing during tis period leh...
then do u all oso haf more discharges during 2ww huh?? me haf leh... dunno izzit normal or kena infection le...
do u all feel very irritated / peck chek during ur 2ww huh?? find dat i haf quite a bad mood swing during tis period leh...
then do u all oso haf more discharges during 2ww huh?? me haf leh... dunno izzit normal or kena infection le...
mornin gals! jus finished readin all the postings over the wkend. me feelin no gd either.. appetite getin worse. can only stomach porridge n soupy stuff. the feelin of hungry but yet cant eat when see the food is terrible
magpie- i hope u r feelin ok. rem i tried for 11 cycles thn strike so dun gv up k! i noe the feelin of doin all the right things, BD at the correct timing but yet failed again n again. i hv asked myself wat went wrong? thn got so stressed up n worsen things. thn i learn to relax n take things easy n hv tat 'if no strike, continue to enjoy BD, if strike wil be a bonus' thinking. didnt pin much hopes last cycle either thou i tested +ve opk cos it hapens b4. hence was reali a surprise!
magpie- i hope u r feelin ok. rem i tried for 11 cycles thn strike so dun gv up k! i noe the feelin of doin all the right things, BD at the correct timing but yet failed again n again. i hv asked myself wat went wrong? thn got so stressed up n worsen things. thn i learn to relax n take things easy n hv tat 'if no strike, continue to enjoy BD, if strike wil be a bonus' thinking. didnt pin much hopes last cycle either thou i tested +ve opk cos it hapens b4. hence was reali a surprise!
liz, that will be an interesting and good topic to touch on
i read that before BD, the couple can watch some intimate show, will help the sperms, keke
feifei, im better liao. now waiting for next cycle to come and do what i have planned and not going to tell hubby my plan liao
ceraine, haha, hope so. hope such day won't come when my neck turn super long ;p
jaspire, did you try take small meal? it may helps. Don't cry ya, although u may be having bad MS, but it show your baby doing fine inside your womb.
roxzy, wow, good luck and jia you jia you
feifei, im better liao. now waiting for next cycle to come and do what i have planned and not going to tell hubby my plan liao
ceraine, haha, hope so. hope such day won't come when my neck turn super long ;p
jaspire, did you try take small meal? it may helps. Don't cry ya, although u may be having bad MS, but it show your baby doing fine inside your womb.
roxzy, wow, good luck and jia you jia you
hi fei,
oops, i hvent wakie, interpret ure yesdae as sat!!!
pls forgive me
hmm...looks like u O liao lei ( i might be wrong)
did FF detect Ovulution as Sunday??
Jaspire darling,
u take care okie, sayang.
yah..pregnancy route not easy. but it will be over soon...once u see ure daring, this hardship is worth it.
Liz,
try to look around lor.
i saw a few financial opportunities on sat's paper.aiyah...or u consider early retirement lor
huh...my boss opposite. i think me is the complicated one..haha
oops, i hvent wakie, interpret ure yesdae as sat!!!
pls forgive me
hmm...looks like u O liao lei ( i might be wrong)
did FF detect Ovulution as Sunday??
Jaspire darling,
u take care okie, sayang.
yah..pregnancy route not easy. but it will be over soon...once u see ure daring, this hardship is worth it.
Liz,
try to look around lor.
i saw a few financial opportunities on sat's paper.aiyah...or u consider early retirement lor
huh...my boss opposite. i think me is the complicated one..haha
Gillian,
=)...Jia you ger...Maybe its beta if we dun tell our hb our plan hor =)...hee
Ceraine,
FF haven detect my O yet lor... FF only predict my O to me today leh...
Jaspire,
oh dear...dun cry ger =)....We are here for u ya..Really weida and xinku to be a mummy..
Ant,
hi ya...so long din see ur posts leh...sounds xinku hor....hopfully ur 2nd trim will be free of MS...
=)...Jia you ger...Maybe its beta if we dun tell our hb our plan hor =)...hee
Ceraine,
FF haven detect my O yet lor... FF only predict my O to me today leh...
Jaspire,
oh dear...dun cry ger =)....We are here for u ya..Really weida and xinku to be a mummy..
Ant,
hi ya...so long din see ur posts leh...sounds xinku hor....hopfully ur 2nd trim will be free of MS...
wannababy
nope. DH on reservist.
Ceraine
yap. looking around. early retirement. dream on. think i will be too bored also. me a bit career minded and competitive. Don't think I can stay at home.
Gillian
watch intimate show together. ohh... not put up show for him har... muahaahaaa.....
ant
poor thing. take care also.
erm... think we gals a bit "bian tai" ha ha... want to get preggy so that we can "suffer" like ant and jaspire. ha ha... Just kidding. all these will be worthwhile. oops... you see me "bian tai" again. me also want to suffer for BB. lol...
nope. DH on reservist.
Ceraine
yap. looking around. early retirement. dream on. think i will be too bored also. me a bit career minded and competitive. Don't think I can stay at home.
Gillian
watch intimate show together. ohh... not put up show for him har... muahaahaaa.....
ant
poor thing. take care also.
erm... think we gals a bit "bian tai" ha ha... want to get preggy so that we can "suffer" like ant and jaspire. ha ha... Just kidding. all these will be worthwhile. oops... you see me "bian tai" again. me also want to suffer for BB. lol...
