ohohjazz, i agree with you totally. When me and my hubby first started TTC, he did very little too. Even when i got the medicine for him, he will skip some days which will make me very fed up. While me on the other side, eat clomid, spend money on gynae, suffer when drawing out tubes of blood, the waiting time to see gynae, money on purchasing the thermometer, OPK, pregnancy kit, paid to become members of fertility friend, spending so much time to search online, and even become depress with each fail cycle.
I have told him so many times, pls buck up and do something and not wasting my effort, my money, my time and even health risk while taking clomid. He still didn't
Only after a few tries, then he realises it's not easy at all to strike. After that he starts to do research abit and do things that he can such as getting a set of medicine at home and eat at night if he forget or no time to eat at office. Bathe without heater on, went to chinese sinseh with me, drink the brew herbs too etc etc.
I guess there's nothing much we can do until the thing just cross into their mind then they will do