Sparkle bee,
normally test a day post AF report date.
but some, dpo12 can detect +ve, coz HCG very high.
how long normally is ure leuthal phase?
u can try testing lah, if BFN and AF do not report, test 2 days later lah.
Elders belive in testing at CD40.
girls, on the patting part, yah, coz if mummy shocked and bb not strongly implanted , might drop.
my excolleague when she preg, didnt tell me.yet still play with me, pat me hit me and i rebuked back.accidentally hit her shoulder.she told me immediately she feel unwell and wana vomit.kaus scare the hell out of me.
i was in 2WW then too.
but she is alreay 5weeks preggy.luckily she managed to keep the bb, else i tink i sinner liao.
haha, she got chided by the gynae and hubby for being so childish preggy le still so careless