Hi Hui,
Congrats! as long as the baby is fine,u should be relieved.i think any delivery after 30 wk is considered okie.
Hope_4_bb,
Rem I mentioned I had mid cycle bleeding when i was on clomid & bai feng wan? scared myself to death,i tell u.i can understand how u feel.I did my 2nd attempt of IUI after I did the HSG (the same cycle).HSG was 'shiong',bleed for i think 2-3 days.after that,stopped.that was the cycle i had no mid cycle bleeding coz i totally stopped clomid & bai feng wan.for my 1st attempt of IUI,bled for 2 days after IUI.Pregnancy is so strange.Guess I still trust my gut instinct.at 1 point,i was wondering if the failure was due to failed implantation or failed fertilisation.after mths & mths of all these,i'm sick & tired of it already.i told myself if menses comes,that means menses comes.no need to analyse so much.Oh,i didn't know PC wong doesn't follow up.He usually works hand in hand with Mary rauff.u wanna try seeing mary rauff? Yeah,that's the thing with gov,hospital.the charges are a lot cheaper though.
I went to Chris chong,like i told u.he reckons my uterine septum needs to be snipped off.5K!!!!! less than 1/2 is medisave claimable.hubby doesn't want to pay for my surgery! i feel i'm going in circles.instead of feeling more positive,i feel more demoralised as i sink deeper into this dark hole.wat chris chong said made a lot of sense.but still,hubby & i r not getting anywhere.he said failure to conceive usually 1/3 due to both male & female,1/3 due to male,1/3 due to female.for mine,i guess it's both of us.hubby's swimmers not v strong,i have a septum,making my risk of miscarriage higher.hubby went for scan of testes,proven he has varicose veins around testes.he has refused surgery outright.given testosterone.on my part,i think i'll take the plunge & go for surgery,coz PC wong also said it will increase my chance of having miscarriages.hubby not keen on me going for surgery.see,if i don't do anything on my part,he only takes male hormones,then there is no improvement in anything,right? i'm very keen on IVF,coz i think that increases our chances of getting preg,but chris chong wants everything corrected 1st.hubby so unco-operative,say after he takes testosterone,try again.i'm so sick & tired of trying.i wanna scream out loud already.sex has lost it's meaning.it's juz going thru' the motions,how sad.previously,i was still interested while trying.but for the last mth,i was totally detached! i guess it's my heart's way of telling me i've had enough shit,and i wanna give up already.
but everytime this happens,part of me will say keep trying,esp when it comes close to my fertile period.i feel like leaving this whole marriage,as i think it has become pointless.
