Hi Gals...
It's been a long time since I came here....
Liz,
Like u, I oso felt the same way and I oso told my DH abt us not having any kids at all. Well, he said we will all try hard together, if tis cycle fails nvm, there's still a next one to try for. However, from wat it seems that now it's even more difficult than ever due to the stress that we face at our jobs and etc...
I really envy pple who are able to get preggy successfully after a few tries. And now whenever I see preggies on the streets or little babies in the arms of their proud parents, I think to myself silently? How come I am deprive of this chance to be like them? Occasionally, I will be pretty upset and depressed but now I have learn to dealt with it thou' now and then still the sad feeling will come. Deep down, I know that miracle will not happen to me after all.
What your DH says it's true, even really fated got no kids, we still can have other aspects to look into. Recently, I read an article about a lady who tried for 8 years and doctor cld not fathom anything wrong with the couple. So in the end after being childless for 8 yrs, they went to adopt a kid and soon after she finds herself pregnant and gave birth to a gal. So anything can happen, maybe at tis moment in time, a child is not destined to come in the way or so as yet.
Just take it easy and relaxed, no point stressing ourselves out over it ended up we will be more upset than ever. For me, at tis point in life, I just buried myself in work and jewellery making passion or alternative sing out my lungs over the wkend *haha*. Else, occasionally, take a break go for holidays (need not be a long one a short getaway will do the trick
I believe "Huang Tian Bu Fu Ku Xing Ren" someday we will get there...
For those still in the 2WW, good luck orr! and may we hear more gd news on the way!!