Such a sad thing happen to Claire dear. U are really a 100% gd DIL leh. I salute u! I dun kn y i simply can't give 100% to my IL no doubt they are ok lah, but kind of still diff fr my own parents. I feel my MIL is those that wanna enjoy life, must give her $, must got car, even thou nv do till so obvious, n she will compare. They dun kn the son is working so hard n moreover my DH on comm basis. Anyway, I simply can't be bothered. I will greet them when u c them, got occassions will bring them out for dinner, give them ang bao, settle liao. My DH feel i dun really treat his parents like mine own, but he also can't too much cos i'm damn stubborn, the more u force me then too bad. N i told him anyway i nt rude to them. Nw then i realise it makes sense that when ppl say a couple getting married, the affair is nt jus the 2 of u but the family as well. When talk abt such issue, is nv ending.
Dun sad le, at least ur DH got show gesture he is sorry. Anyway nt pt ruining ur r/s cos of ur BIL!
I kn hw it fails, i also kena bef, my DH says cos he really can't stand my attitude, n it nt only happen once. Till today i still can't totally forget abt it n will jump at any chance to say he hurt me so bad. But i admit my temper is really bad n God helped me to control my fiery temper, learn to give n take.
I will still be on the lookout for job and ttc at the same time. Aft all i still need income for my expenses, n buy stuff, dun like to ask Dh for it. I like to be independent in terms of financial. Hopefully my TTC can be successful soon at least 1 less prob, no doubt i may be still w/o a job n no maternity leave but is ok. God will walk a way out for me. I can do some part time, contract n my DH will definitly work doubly hard for BB. I also like u gals, actuallly very simple. Hv a easy job so can go hm on time. Of cos to hv some bonus yr end, thats all. Of cos having gd colleagues n boss
Crown, dun worry everything will be jus fine. Realx. We kn we will be hearing gd news fr u.
TCM got say nt all suitable to take BFW. She say can eat others to bu nt neccessary to take this.
She say best is cordyceps!