No leh she won't ask for milk once awake. Her morning routine is sit her in the bouncer and drink warm water and watch cartoon. That can last her at least 15mins. She enjoys that private moment while everyone else in the family can get some own prep time. About 7plus or 8am, if she gets cranky, milk first. If never show sign of that, will feed her cooked oatmeal. Then she'll get her morning walk or to the playground. Around 9-10am she will have milk then her first nap of the day.
She does ask for food all the time when she sees us eat. Since few days ago she has been on home cooked porridge strike. I made porridge early in morning and put in thermal flask for her lunch. She has lost interest in that already. So I told Yeye to feed her egg and bread for lunch. Sometimes he will feed her rice and tofu. Today he fed her pork porridge from outside and she likes it.
During weekend, she will just eat whatever we eat. MCD, Chye tao kweh, chee cheong fun all these.
I think as long as they eat happy with varieties then let him have the pancake lor. Maybe can add some banana or blueberry into the batter.