haha u gals r funny. i didnt demand any labor gift from hubby for #1. i feel tt he is as precious a gift as i can get so no need anymore gifts. also, hubby was super hands-on with him...his job was v flexi tt time as he worked from home the first few mths. helped me to bath for baby, change nappy, play with him, make milk, feed baby, etc so i m super happy liao.
as for getting back in shape...i m quite sure i dont want a no.3 so will have to work super hard to get back into pre-preg shape. best if can get back into wedding shape as i looked the best then. HAHA