Fabbie,
If u want a boy, u really must be zhun zhun timing. Must track ur ovulation day, have sex as close to ur ovulation day. On that day or one day after ovulation. If want girl, must avoid doing on ovulation day, 3days before ovulation.
Ever since I start trying, every month track my ovulation, take temp, going gynae scan for egg, even go TCM for accuputure. End up I gave up trying for boy, just increase my chances of pregnant will do. Haha.
Sparkle bee,
I also feel like doing for Xmas. Still thinking....