Hihi,
At 37 week (27 dec), my gynae said my bb has engaged and quite low.. cervix opened at 1 cm.. she told me I might deliver anytime, else to admit hospital on 2 Jan 13 to induce. She said my girl at 37weeks alrdy 3.335kg.. if wanna go by natural, got to induce by next week before 3 jan.
For #1, I'm induced for labour at 40weeks (cervix not opened at all) and it took me 22 hrs from the 1st induced pill. So gynae said this round will take at least half of #1, which is 10hrs. Faintz.
But guess what.. I called my cl, to inform her iof my tentative delivery date 2 jan, she said she didnt expect me to deliver so early and can only start on 7 jan, after she completed the current confinement on 6 jan. She asked me to delay my delivery till 4 jan, if not ask my mom to help out for the 1st 4 days. In the end, then she proposed to get her friend to do the 4 days for her. Kinda of upset that she cant leave 3 days earlier for me, and now I gotta pay the 1st cl 2 angbaos, then another 2 to her too. 2ndly, I gotta start my 1st 4 days with someone im havent talk/know of, dunno how it'll turn out..
Then im also worried abt the arrangement for #1. I'm her main caregiver since day 1 and she's very attached to me. Now im going for delivery, have asked my mom to help our. But we are scared that she will refuse my mom to bring her to cc, feed her and sleep with her. Hubby starts work at 5am.. so he cant help out.. think I'll miss her when im in hospital and worried she will not wanna go home after visiting me in hospital. And tentatively, my hb was telling me that I have to admit to hospital on my own, discharge on my own.. and also to bring #1 to cc during my cl.. kinda of depressed..