MIAed for whole day being bz with my mum's bday party tmr. And wow, so many posts to catch up. ;p
im also TTC #1.
E-cups - Dr Zou said its normal for PCOS patients to have long cycles. i havent started accupunture, she said maybe can try next mth since i may have O 3 days ago.
ylgoh - my coll sis dr also asked her to go IVF cos both she & DH results no gd (not sure what tho) & have been trying for yearss.. she gave IUI a try 1st then IVF. now, her bb boy is 6mths old, cute & chubby. discuss with your DH and see if you wanna proceed with IVF. dont give up hope ya.
Amy - dont stress ya. pretty pretty bride you'll be.
nb01 - yep i've PCOS. as long as im on clomid, my cycle will be normal 28-30 days. dont wanna depend on clomid anymore so TCM now. hope slowly my cycle will be back to normal. oh, try not to take pineapple. too liang for the womb. i think i may have a chemical pregnancy (dunno if its the correct term) few mths back becos the joker me took pineapple to 'force' AF to report. i tested BFN 2 days b4 AF is suppose to due. but was having symptoms like backache, nauseous, sensitive to smell & food. feeling so frust that AF didnt report zhun zhun since i was taking clomid, i took lots of pineapple on CD33/34. and within 2 days, AF came in super full force. see lumps, clots & bleeding so much till my knees went weak (sorry tmi). super regret thereafter that i didnt wait & test again. now i dont dare to touch pineapple anymore.
tethysea - *hugs* im with you. try to one ear in, another ear out. rem my MIL 'forced me to accept' my SIL BFP for #3 last mth? cried my eyes out & miserable for daysssss. someone consoled me saying, you cant stop ppl with sharing their joy with you even though you're be upset. think from their point of view will make you feel better. they just wanna share their joy. this somehow has helped me to accept my SIL's BFP & i can now chat with her on her pregnancy.
actually, sometimes your loved ones feel its ok with share with you even knowing that you're going thru pain. to them, they'll think if they dont share with their loved ones, who should they share with? also they may not have gone thru what you've been thru, so they wont understand how painful it is. given all this factors, they tend 'forget' about our pain. cheer up & jia you ya.
btw ladies, talking about what to eat, one of my coll told me this: if i want a boy, i've to BD on O. if want a gal, BD on DPO1. dunno true or not but she said she got it zhun zhun and few other frenz also got it too.