Hi Faithfully, could it be sciatic nerve pain for you? Does it ease off if you try to not sit/ lie on that side? I used to have sciatic nerve pain in first trimester but with target muscles exercise, it has since not re-emerged. Hope you'll find where the problem lies and feel better soon.
Hi Baby, ahhh I know, you are also concerned that Zapp Extra isn't suitable for newborn right? Guess what, yesterday we did an observation. The baby carseats are suitable for newborns and has slight inclination, same for the Zapp Xtra too, slight inclination, not 100% flat (I think new standard says 100% flat then suitable for NBs but I noticed most carseats ain't such). For Zapp Xtra, once the newborn cushion padding is added to it (abt $80), we feel it's safe for NBs. Planning to get the cushioning head supports too for use in carseat, stroller, home in case the devices are still tad too spacious for newborn. We like the Zapp Xtra cos can reduced to very small when folded up, fear that car boot may not have enough space with normal strollers plus barang barangs.
It's a real headache, only yesterday I realised it's impossible to fit in 2 carseats plus another adult into the back passenger seats. So if planning for 2nd child, mean pocket big hole, car upgrading, sigh
Maybe garmen should give big and young family special concessions for car purchases heh...