Heartbeats and Chris, so funny, my hubby is a gaming addict too!! I think many Singaporean men are like that
He used to cheat and come to bed early with me, then in the mid of the night, he will sneak out of bedroom and play games. But he is over this post mid night gaming stage, now more hooked on downloading games into iPhone. His iPhone is constantly downloading new games (eg he would refuse to open the pix or files I sent him via watsapp so he can save on downloading quota...lol), I wonder where he finds time to play them, but I just open and close 1 eye.
Chris, I agree with you, with some men, need to give them space, some still behaves like kid after getting hitched. Sometimes have to motivate and encourage them and act silly along with them. But with patience, forgiveness and sometimes lower expectations, relationships may get better after all. Most important is to not fall outta love with our spouse, anything else can definitely be resolved.
My hubby only started to show off his housework 'talent' when I got pregnant recently, before that, I've always thought housework is his handdicap and i stupidly did it all even though I have more OTs...grumbles.... Now he is the one nagging me to keep things organized and clean, I'm so very heart-warmed to see the change
I thought I'll never see this day coming. My thots are that perhaps in the past, I've not given him enough opportunities and patience to develop a sense of ownership for the marriage and housework, so now I'm slowly relinquishing duties to him. Will wait to see how he contributes to baby care very soon, so far he has been quite patient with his nephews since they were babies, I'm hoping he'll grow into the daddy role very soon. Fingers crossed and hoping for the best for us all
Chris, I'm week 22 tomorrow, few more weeks to crossing 7th month, can't wait...!!