J03, well, yes, u hv a boy, went thru full term pregnancy, a mummy too,. Read books/magazines in the past.. But hor.. If u dun remind me that, I will think u first time mummy, coz All the things u ask here seem otherwise...
FYI, I hv a little sister who I m so much older than her. So, though i hv not yet be a mummy, does not mean I m any inferior to u. U say something u forget already, as 8 yrs already, did u still remember stuff like how to bathe a bb? FYI, I definitely do though it is 20 yrs ago since I did it.. My mum is in her 60s, memory definitely not as gd as us, even she does... Dun forget i hv a 7 yrs old & 5 yrs nephew & niece at home who i always bb sit last time coz my sil/bro work long hrs. I m not saying u r wrong or I m right or vice versa. I am just sharing my thoughts, not saying I m right. U can dun agree but u cannot say coz of one experience u had (ie ur boy) u r right. One eg is not representative of every kid. Furthermore, Ur boy maybe social by nature, so that makes it easier for him to mingle with others regardless of age he started.. Also, 8 yrs ago, I m sure u are not so stressed up like now, so ur boy is more easy nature too.
When I say holidays, straight Way u jump to tour.. U assume it will be crowded. The only risk is on the plane where air is not ventilated. The plc to go, how many hrs of flight, the amentites, etc, hv to be well considered for the sake of bb. Go holidays, does not mean in big grp, does not mean visit confined areas when there..
Not sure if I m right, but I think u r a simple woman which is not a bad thing, Nv been exposed to much.. Eg, go holidays alone free & easy, plan an overseas trip single handedly for an entire family trip, etc...
Of course no hard feeling.