Hi all mummies, good morning! Well, it's a falling sick morning for me. I had a bad sore throat the whole night and cant sleep.
Now still feeling it. My 2 yr old daughter loh, deliberately sneezed in my face and hubby's face then when i call her "Bing4 Mao1", she was so indignant and told me "Mummy, Noooo dont call me that" then proceed to lick my thighs, bite my shirt like a puppy, then after 2 hours she started to have drippy nose, still dare to come and tell me before bed that "Mummy, bing mao not sick already." Then proceed to kiss me. I also dunnoe to laugh or to cry.... then i fell sick lor....
Serenelm, okok my email
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Dun laff at the obiang email name hor hehe had it since i was 17 in the Uni
Singling, I agree with the "old method" to use cloth nappy for the day and disposables for the night cos its more airy and easier on the newborn's delicate skin
Raspy, remember i said my CL not gd almost caused me depression? Incidentally 1 of the main things she did that made me cry was that when I was resting in the day, she refused to use cloth diapers on my baby even though this were my clear instructions! I told her a few times to use it, she keep on "forgetting". I mean she really really did not have to do anything else but take care of baby and cook for me and wash baby's clothes, i dunnoe what's her prob! Worse still when hubby is back from work, she told my hubby to persuade me to use disposables she say better for the child, my hubby trusted her experience n promptly relayed her message to me, drove me almost nuts! Cos i feel that disposables or cloth all have pros and cons but this is my child n my preference so u should respect and she is really lazy for 2300 we paid her loh and hubby so tired after work already she still want to go n bother him abt this issue!
Meredith: yah i heard and personally know a few cases where OSCAR results not gd but baby turn out fine one....but this is ur choice abt amino cos it also carries risks, as i mentioned before, if u decide to keep this child no matter what then IMO, it is not worth doing amino.
Btil: Regarding the journey of pregnancy, i agree with u that there is so much to discover abt ourselves and our family in the process, a lot of different physcological barriers emotional hurdles to cross then finally when the BIG day comes to give birth, u need a lot of strength literally and confidence but the moment the child is in ur arms n u know he/she will be there with u and for u for life, the feeling is amazing. A lot of great things in our lives, in order to get them and enjoy them, the process may not be easy. The process is a test to see if we are ready to be a mother of a miracle life. For first time mummies, I feel that it is also an initiation ritual to transcend us fully into womanhood. Just like in the tribes, no initiation ritual test is easy, u need to prove u are ready ...
Every single hurdle is a lesson learnt. It's not easy but i know we will all come around and face the current obstacles and whatever is coming with positive thinking and the right mindset.
Jia You everyone!
