Brina, Thai wedding outfit is nice, very elegant. Since MIL in thai, ask her to buy triump or sorella nursing bra for you, damn cheap there, buy 2 there can only buy 1 here.
AhNah, as long as baby is healthy, boy or girl is fine. I've 2 stories to share with my girl, if didi, cannot share toy and wear different outfit, if meimei, can share many pretty pretty things. Take the next 20+ weeks, to teach sharing and playing as a team.