My #1 went thru emergency c-sect cos nvr dilate. My wound heal very fast (not sure abt inside cos I hav a colleague say lucky her 2nd bb also c-sect cos gynea say her inside not dry up yet after 2 yrs) and I can walk on the 2nd day and had no problem waking up from bed myself. Hav heard my friend telling me she need huuby to pull her up from bed everyday during her confinement and can't walk for many days. I'm the lucky ones.
Problems faced:
1) I had big problem breastfeeding cos can only use football method (carry bb on the side) instead of normal method in the end both me and #1 gave up on latching on.
2)I went thru both natural pain and c-sect pain.
The pain for c-sect is terrible. But I'm the lucky ones where I only feel the pain when I start to sit up on bed. I hav a friend who feel the pain immediately after the epi went off. She cried.
3)I hav problem bath too cos the water proof plaster drop off. And mus really take care not to wet that area. I'm so worried that it wound will open up or nvr dry up if I nvr take care.
4) I hav a bad record in my medical report. Last time I jus tick all "no" when asked on health issues. Now I hav a "yes". Cos I had operation b4.
5) I can't eat normal confinement food for 2 wks cos some food like chicken not good for the wound. So in the end I nvr "pu" enough. I keep falling sick after giving birth to #1 till now. So worried my #2 will be affected by my bad health.
4) I can't do massage till 3wks later, and my massage lady still don dare to massage my tummy at tat time. So in the end I nvr lost the weight and tummy size.
5) I have read lots of emergency cases during c-sect, eg, lost of blood, blood pressure drop, take too long to stitch up the wound and epi effect went off so can feel the pain went gynea is stitching up etc. The risk is more than natural birth. Lucky I went thru without problems.
6) I also don feel the motherly feeling cos bb jus came out like that without any feeling. So hubby keep complaining that I don love my #1. Only few wks later then I start to feel it.
7) we have to take many types pain killer, and other med which I'm afraid it will affect breastfeeding even tot gynea say its ok. I tried my best to endure the pain (lucky for me its not that painful after I get used to the pain of walking) and stop taking all pain killers once I reach home. For those who can't walk for many days and can't get up from bed, will need to continue with it. Some even hav to take the stronger version in order to stop the pain. Heard natural birth no need pain killer right?
So conclusion, I'm pray hard for a natural birth tis time. But I'm taking a big risk cos I don know whether my inside wound had dried up after 1.5yrs. If not dried up yet, I hav a risk of my wound rupture. But I will still pary hard and try my best for it. Hav been telling my bb that Daddy wan to see u born and cut your umbilical cord. So pls come out naturally. My hubby feel very sad that he is not able to witness the birth of his bb. KKH don allow hubby to be in for emergency c-sect.