peapea, ya, here is the only way we can share and talked abt our ttc journey, real life friends will not understand unless they r in the same situation as us. i still dun have the courage to research on IVF process, heard tt its painful and costly too [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif] surprising hubby didnt get upset, but however, i felt that he is just trying to conceal maybe for ego or not to let me worry. will see how again when he is back from overseas as we only manage to talk on long distance call now [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif]
JC, by going to a second gynae im afraid gotta go thru all the tests again. considering Tcm as well. both me and hubby also smoker. Have you heard about the myth between menthols and red cigarettes? friends and family around me mostly are smokers, but they conceived so easily like hatching eggs so i dont really think smoking is a problem but the clinic nurses told me somehow it does affect, they said drinking affects too.
Shortlegged Pig, may i know did ur gynae did anything to improve the sperm quality? so far reports for my tests all appeared fine, no block tubes, blood test are appeared normal. the only problem is with the sperm. may i know which gynae you with also? thanks!
Jas, how long had u been ttc-ing? actually we didnt agree on a timeframe like yours, just felt that it had been some time we are trying and its time we do something about it. but im glad that we went for the tests and found out what's wrong and could find solution and make decision from there, though the results is sometimes too devastating. i personally also feels that smoking is not really a big problem as many ppl still conceive even though they r passive smoker. i guess lifestyle and eating habits affects more?
lynn, thanks for the info! might wana try Tcm and c what advices they give. milk n exercising is a problem to him as he dare not take milk and he dont really have time for exercising. hes such a workaholic [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/sad.gif] btw, u taking royal jelly pills? i went to check out on the Kordel pills someone mentioned earlier, omg, the tablet is SO BIG. dunno how to swallow.
xin, CONGRATS [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
missycandy, thanks for the encouragement, so how's ur cycle getting on?
Kath, jiayou, we are here for each other [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
Lynzi, thanks gal! im so full of hope after seeing your comment [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] 2 sperm as in 2 normal sperm of sperm count is 2?
Dolma, is Dr Tan Kian Sing at Clementi same the e one Lynzi is talking about?
Amy, i guess we took the same test! but im not sure what is testosterone? my thyroid test appear a little out of average range but doctor say still alright. no eggs? mayb doctor referring no matured eggs for conceiving? hugs. did ur hubby go for SA test? quit smoking is quite difficult for them, not even them, to me, its difficult too. I agree blood test is so scary, i dare not look at the needle! but i believe, if 1 day we r preggy, the motherly soul in us will brave us thru all needles for the sake of our child [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]