hi mummies
it has been a rough week for me, dear son was down with high fever since last sat, today finally the fever is gone, Praise the Lord! We visited GP, PD and even checked him in KKH A&E and did a blood test - shows bacteria infection. Am so glad it is over and my son is an overcomer!! It is really heart wrenching to see him suffer - cold shower, cold wipes and so much medicine. Now he only has a congested nose to nurse.
Briefly scan thru' the thread, long eh!
re: care for baby
Just like to share, my son has been cared for by maid since birth, i left him with maid(in the process changed a few already) after my ML. Definitely pros and cons of hiring one but i have no choice, no in laws, my own parents are busy and don't like to take care of kids. If you ever encounter similar situation as me, don't lose hope. Get a web cam installed at home and you can also monitor your son and maid. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif] Open communication with your maid is most important, no need to hide the camera from your maid, just tell her you are at work and miss your kid and want to know what's going on. There's nothing to hide. Mostly important i know & trust God is watcing my boy while we are at work. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
re: playpen/cot
My son who is turning 4 in Sep still have his afternoon nap in playpen, it is definitely a very useful one, we had a small bb cot which he outgrown when he was 8mths, when he cld stand and cruise. The playpen is placed in my living room where he has his nap in the day. Now he still sleeps with us in the same room at night, which we're still figuring how to transit him to sleep with the maid before bb comes.
re: Oscar Scan
Starry, thanks for sharing what to expect during Oscar, can't recall ...been 4 yrs ago, haahaa. Am going for Oscar Scan next Thurs.
Shirley: if you can see gender during Oscar scan, likelihood will be boy, cos' i heard girl is more difficult to detect b'cos of the 2 lines. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
re: diaper
i also tried many brands and i think diff. kids suit diff brands, no perfect one. For my boy, Mamy Poko suits him best, least case of leakage. Day time we used NTUC brand but it is more snugfit. Nowadays he don't even wet his pull up pants at night, think very soon can wean him off that and wear only brief to sleep. Difficult to change habits, he knows come sleeping time, the attire is different, haahaa.
Hope the 1st tri will pass soon for all of us and we can enjoy 2nd tri - honeymoon stage. [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]