Hey jojo, my second appt is also on 10 March! Yup, you should be able to see heartbeat around 6+ weeks!
Pray&Love, add me to the list please! BB #1, EDD 13 October. FTWM here! Still deciding Gynae and Hospital. Thank you!!!
For the mommies who are feeling down because of the fear of threatened abortions, I would like to share with you on my chemical pregnancy last November. Went to see gynae immediately after I saw some spotting. Gynae did a vscan and found that my womb was pushing out lil bean. Told me that he's not optimistic and I should let nature take it's own course. In other words, if it's not a healthy pregnancy, we shouldn't try so hard to save the baby. I told this to my friend a month later about how heartless the gynae was not to save my bb and she actually agreed with the gynae. Then she related to me about her sister-in-law who had a difficult pregnancy. She told the Gynae to save the baby no matter what. In the end, though her pregnancy was saved, she delivered an unhealthy deformed baby.
I still cry sometimes at the thought that my angel baby went to heaven without letting mommy see him/her. But deep down, I know that it's for my own good. Instead of letting me choose whether to keep the baby or abort it after finding out it's deformities, God actually made that painful decision for me.
I hope my sharing will help sad mommies see things from a different angle. Of course, I'm praying that we'll all have a strong, healthy pregnancy. But let's not feel dejected if things take a different turn and continue to stay positive!
After the miscarriage, I told my husband that I'm not giving up TTC! So we tried again immediately after. By His Grace, we managed to get pregnant again after just two months!
Ladies, let's all stay positive and count down to the stabilization of our pregnancies in 3-6 weeks' time!