lynn> ah i see...didn't know the scan could tell the severity of the "abnormality" so well, to know that long term care by other pple is needed. was thinking can operate after baby's born to try to cure the "abnormal" parts. anyway hope everyone's baby will be healthy and normal!
ivfamily> my peeing problem is actually frequent peeing, not leaking. though i used to have a bit of leaking too but started doing kegal exercises once in awhile and it's helped a bit. i read that other than normal kegal exercises when u're sitting down, can also try it when u're peeing, ie learn to control your urine and stop it mid stream, then pee again, then stop again etc...
hmm if you couldn't tell your boy had a cleft palate till he was 1 mth old, then it was probably not very major. hope everything's fine now and your #2 will be ok [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]
karen> i got an official report right after my appt, but already knew the results during the scan itself. the doc just went thru the organs part by part with me and explained as she went along what was what, and how it was normal, etc.