finally, answers! hahaha
lyn : Ya lor, i hv to sew those velcro to hold up the 'in betweens', but then tis bb can still push it down wif her feet! Her jie jie lagi best, I used to sew riboons in betweens but she pulled the ribbons off, that's why I took e ribbons off and sewn on velcro - til the skin of my fingers teared!
#2 also prefers to slp in between us but it's actually dangerous, she almost fell into the side gap of the bed/wall once, 'saved by my UPapa', and I try not to put her on our bed ever since.
I had wanted to co-slp wif her on our bed when I took over to fully latch-feed her, but afraid that she'd get too used to it, we still let her slp on her cot at nite. In the afterns, we still let her nap on her rocker or put her on her cot when she's fallen asleep.
elmo : my #1 really terrible, she turned 360deg during her 1st few days, tt's why I bought cot bumpers for her then. now #2 also doing it, haiz...
That's why now I'm thinking to get bumpers with 'harder sponge', so that they won't be push down...