Angelina,
to be fair, my mom did ask me to spend time with my son.. that is if my hubby is back from camp/work... that is only after one time when she asked why my hubby wanted to carry the baby when he came back home the other nite from his reservist! my hubby was so angry with his MIL lor... then i told my mom saying, because bb is his son leh!
well, as for my MIL, she'll be back to work next week... so i ren for the time being... then i'll "kidnap" my son back to my room in the afternoon liao... hopefully by then he's able to slp well in his own cot~ but was secretly hoping that she can end her leave earlier~! anyway, she has been a great help also lah... at least my mom not so busy, having to cook for me n take care of the bb...
sigh... see i very bad hor... i know they are just trying their best to lessen my burden but yet i'm here ranting away... =(
babyhappie,
CL is outsider! dun be too ke qi to her okie? have your rest but when you want to spend time with ur precious, just go n spend time with him! tell the CL u'll need to learn how to take care ya... (when i told my mom once that, i cried! ai yo...)
my mom same as your CL lor!!! i almost fainted during the first week seeing how she feed bb... u know the pigeon wide neck bottle the teats can fit the pigeon storage bottle? she also warm up the full bottle of BM in my storage bottle and just fix with the milk bottle teat! i was like so heart pain... cos that time my milk supply darn low.. and to get that bottle full took me so long lor... so wasted... did the hospital give you any one time use teats to fit onto the glass milk bottles one? my mom can use that teat directly on the medela pump bottle when she can't find a suitable teat (which i've already kept it cos dun wan her to use mah..)hahaa.. she cute lah... say can fix... milk never drip can use lah...
but i'm very thankful for my mom and MIL..if not for them, i'll be insane by now... being a first time mom dunno many many things... also got to depend on them...
Ling (Printz n Such),
ehhh... i feel by latching i can't gauge how much my boi is feeding... plus i dun wan him to wake up every now and then to ask for milk... like quite distruptive to his slp like that leh...
but i'm glad to have found such a strong support group here! who's willing to read my rants! and pai seh... so long winded ah... =) feeling much balanced up after saying all out! tonite i'll try to get my son back in my room!!! if possible... haaa...
pumping time!!!
Andrea,
hugs hugs... dun worry.. ur bb will be fine yah... so does that mean u can't feed ur bb BM?