Koori,
Ur bb is only abt 5 mths right? How come so fast feed porridge? when we start solid it is cereal first and porridge will start 1 or 2 mths later de if I remember correctly for my #1. also milk shd be bb main food intake till they are 1 yrs old if I do remember.
In my view, ur nanny is not those that really like bb or children thus they bbsit. In fact, she give me the impression tat she is only trying to make $$ out of it. I got a fren, who decided nt to send her bb to the nanny coz before even starting with her, the nanny request for 'bonus' at the end of the yr saying since normally people will get bonus at yr end.
I ever ask my nanny, she say this is nonesense lor. The only 'bonus' nanny hv is the ang pao we gif her during CNY lor.
Hammiebao,
the best ting is MIL will likely nt try funny things on their children but they will try it on their grandchildren de. Which is wat mine did to my #1 before lor.
check if ur boy LS. If so, say loudly to make sure ur MIL heard it.