Melissa,
from what I know, to some men, it is not wrong in their warped mindset to have fun outside as long as it doesn't get serious. A few drinks, supper, quick roll in the hay with nameless, faceless women is considered "normal" and a stress-reliever for them, as long as they love their wife and family and continue providing for them. I was really upset when I heard this from a male friend last time. And apparently this is very common in my hubby's work line and among his colleagues. So to a certain extent, I also don't trust men 100%, not even my hubby. I trust him fully with my life, just have some tiny, tiny reservations about how he can handle certain temptations out there.