bb> i think some time ago, someone here talked about a babymoon (like honeymoon)...like a period for daddy and mummy to go and spend quality, relaxing time together before baby arrives. it's usually done in the 2nd trimester, after all the discomfort of the 1st trimester has eased and before mum gets too heavy in the 3d trimester. airlines will also be okay with MTBs travelling in their 1st and 2nd trimester, but not 3rd trimester...if your husband is worried, maybe fly with a more reputable airline like SIA (can't remember if they fly to Bali)? and let them know you are expecting so they can make sure to see to your comfort? which part of Bali are you staying at? Kuta? Nusa Dua? Nusa Dua is where all the atas hotels are, quite restful. Kuta is in the town centre (where all the ang moh tourists like to go), and that can be a bit rowdy... if you go, be very careful with your belongings. for 3D2N, if possible, just bring carry-on, don't check in luggage. that is like playing very safe liao [IMG=http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.gif]