peck, so fast u match-make Jaelyn with SX liao ar.. lolx
Jojo, i give up on ID.. since come Jun i oni do minor reno things, just find a contractor can liao. On baby boy, i tink i shall leave to fate ba.. getting preggie n sustaining full pregnancy is my main prob.. one thing confirm is, i will be getting super paranoid again abt the baby if i get preggie again.
genice, it was a crazy period of time.. i cried like mad each time, esp the first one coz already had heart beat but it stopped at wk9.. can u imagine just a day before bb's heart was still beating so fast when scanning and less than 12hrs later it stopped. my hubby was very upset and he went drinking that nite until very late. i had to do a DnC at TMC. it took me 2 cycles to conceived the 2nd one but bb didn't grow beyond wk5, i went gynea at wk4 but was told to come back at wk7 oni to find tis sad news.. cried on the bus on the way to pray to my late dad. seeing tcm seems like no help at all so i gave up.. my hubby still can say must be our financial not stable so bb dun want us. i was super upset with him. waited for a few days to bb to be expelled out naturally. we tried another 2 cycles before we had the 3rd one, i went kkh 24hrs clinic at wk5 due to spotting, no heartbeat yet, so given injection n progeterone to go hm and rest but i went back there again at wk6 due to red spotting.. scanned and found bb already dislodged, given MC to go home n let bb expelled naturally again... hubby again spurt out on the financial thingy again. i think oni my mum n sis is more supportive during tis period. the 3rd miscarriage happened just a day after i lost my 1st bb for a yr. i told my hubby we just give it one last try.. if conceived and miscarriaged again, then it's really fate that we are not meant to have kids coz i'm really scared liao.. all those short-lived happiness, the feeling of crashing down from heaven to love, e impact get worse each time.
we had a few scary moments when i had Cherisse too.. went gynea at wk6, scan found that sac looked irregular size and egg too big for wk6.. i was super paranoid!! went kkh 24hrs clinic at wk7 due to red spotting. i was crying to my sis if i lost tis bb also i dun want want a bb liao.. moreove, it's was oni a few days again from the anniversary when i lost my 2nd bb. saw the gynea who did a scan and showed mi bb's heartbeat. told me the red spotting prob just some old blood. but i dun like tis gynea. i request for progesterone jab and she said 1st trimester bb is on it's on, jab also no use, if fated to yours will be yours. my sis was also very angry.. how can the gynea say tis???!!! instead of assurance she tells us tis kind of words. i complained to my own gynea later on and found that i was not the first patient to complain abt that gynea. i tink i say in mummysg forum that another mummy complained abt her big time. during first trimester scan, the scan showed low risk of DS but my blood test pulled the result down to just pass.. i got a call fm kkh a week later on xmas eve to go back immediately for a scan due to the result.. cried like mad again (tis time in office).. they scan bb's heart and finally confirmed bb is low risk of DS. *phew* thats my long long TTC story.. you are right! it's all worth it! my sis said if i nv lost 3 bb, i wun have such a cute girl nw.. perhaps it's a blessing after all.
Rabbit, my girl last week keep on poo-ing 3-4 times. she will so small small one then come a big one. if she missed one day, she poo a really big one the next day. super smelly now after introducing porridge. but i find that she poo more easily when she was on FM mamil gold compared to Enfa.. tink i will buy mamil gold to try again to confirm.
i tink i also stressed on the "boy" tradition.. but the stress is from myself coz my PIL and hubby said they have boy or girl also good. my hubby prefers girl somemore.. my BIL getting married tis July and i can stressed on whether she will have a boy before me anot.. my sis n mum said i'm crazy!
Jenn, u have 6 old siblings?? my mum oni had my sis n me.. she lost 2 before my she had my sis. then aborted one before me coz she took some medication which could coz DS bb without knowing she was preggie.
