For us, no worries, we not consider "shotgun", we ROM 2 years back, stayed together 1+ year, so now only is fufil the customary rituals only.. So gossip-mongers also nothing much to gossip, only i abit sian that my wedding pics on the actual day will show a very fat me.. Haiz.. Cos originally, i am big-size liao, now lagi bigger by sep..