Chameleon,
I envy you. A night of uninterrupted sleep.
Especially this week. My babies are down with flu and been taking turn to wake up.
Spiffy,
Mine too, My mum need to sleep and rest at night so daytime oni. this week, I stay at my parent hse and , I tot I can have some sleep as there are a lot of ppl staying at my parent hse. I am wrong.
In the end only me, my helper and my mum who help. My siblings help during the daytime. Better than nothing lah.
All
Actually I am against of getting helper initially, In the end, my girl sleeps with one of my helper alone when no one can help u much. I value my privacy and want my babies to ask for me only very much but as weeks passed, I am too tired to enjoy my motherhood, relationship with hubby also changed, I get very frustrated etc . My helper is good until I have to ask her to leave me alone with babies, I can handle situation or else she will stand ard on standby. Machiam I am snatching her job of looking after the babies. I don’t bring the helper out when I am brings babies on their outing. Helpers are good to be ard at time. But I will not want helper when babies turn 2 years old
About the babies sucking and enjoying their fingers. I have a worry that they will hurt themselves esp when they are teething now. Will it happen? My girl love to chew and suck on anything she can get hold and then with her wet fingers, she will touch the person’s face when he/she carry her.