I find that when I back to work, I have so little time with my boy. I don't want to miss his growing phase. During weekdays, whenever I see him, he is always sleeping. There is no chance for me to "communicate" with him at all. Of course, I work until quite late daily.
MIL likes to bring my BB downstairs to show off. Everyday, she brings him downstairs at least 5 times. Even I tell her not to bring him down so often, she still sneaks out with him. She let anybody carry my BB, which I dislike a lot. I find it so weird to see at different occassions, people I don't even know, carrying my baby walking around, while she happily chit chating at downstairs.
I am very angry with her. Quitting job is the only way I have valid reason to take over the care of my baby.