May i think u should write to mcys. If my ifc stop me from bring own food, i will tell them the fish they use is not suitable for children, how can they force my baby to take, wait allergies who will be responsible leh. And the cereals my ifc is using nestle, actually got sugar.
Annie ang, this is what my mom do, she wash the ikan billies 2 times, rub the ikan billies gently. Then she put it out to sun dry. (my mom did not soak in water, most pple do) Then she stir fry it without oil till crispy. (I use oven to bake 140degree to 160degree - see this link
http://www.myasiancuisines.com/index.php?/grounded-ikan-bilis.html) Then we use blender. Traditionally use pounding haha, im too lazy. I use very little in porridge cos i scare too salty. I try to give at most once a week cos scare too salty.
Miu miu, i guess everything got pros and cons. I got no help, so very siong. But at least nobody will comment this or that. My mom very zi dong, she advise but she listen to my theory, she wont interfere.
Ainsley, i think zucchini can be with cereal or porridge. Imagine if angmo, it will be salad & cereal hehe. Chinese, vegetable stock porridge, cos i think the zucchini will add taste to the porridge.