(2009/12) December 2009 MTBs <IMG SRC="http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/clipart/happy.g
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ainsley i heard sometimes if u are feeling very relax u may experience letdown too
ya shaine somewhat like the one in the pic.
weiting can put in carrier like wat ivy says coz bb can smell u and also when u move abt the movement will help bb to sleep and u get to free up ur hands at the same time. i usually juz put him on my sofa next to me if he whines for carrying i juz pat pat him and talk to him. i don really carry him that much unless latching him.
ya shaine somewhat like the one in the pic.
weiting can put in carrier like wat ivy says coz bb can smell u and also when u move abt the movement will help bb to sleep and u get to free up ur hands at the same time. i usually juz put him on my sofa next to me if he whines for carrying i juz pat pat him and talk to him. i don really carry him that much unless latching him.
smalldreams
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Hi mummies!
Mushloom
I agree that an exersaucer is useful! I've sold mine away. Later when baby gets bigger maybe I'll get a preloved jumperoo or rent some exersaucers for her.
Arisz
Me, I'm taking care of baby on my own at my home in the day since abt a week after giving birth. Quite peaceful. My #1 goes to my mom's place, then by the time he gets back in the evening, my hubby & I Handle both #1 & #2. That's when we go mad, trying to put both to sleep by 10.30 pm!
Don't worry, our babies still young rite, still got hope. Haha. This is my schedule.
7.30 am : Bathe #1, pack him to school.
8 - 9 am : #2 gets up. Latch, bathe.
9 - 11 am : #2 sleeps. I bathe, surf the net, pump milk, cook quickly if I have to. Eat a quick lunch.
Afternoons are quite relaxing as long as #2 sleeps.
6 pm to 7 pm : Wash #2 up
7 pm : #1 and hubby gets home
8 pm : Dinner
9 pm : TV / sleep.
10 to 11 pm : Get kids to sleep. (this is the part i find the toughest!)
I wonder how long this bliss would last.
Mushloom
I agree that an exersaucer is useful! I've sold mine away. Later when baby gets bigger maybe I'll get a preloved jumperoo or rent some exersaucers for her.
Arisz
Me, I'm taking care of baby on my own at my home in the day since abt a week after giving birth. Quite peaceful. My #1 goes to my mom's place, then by the time he gets back in the evening, my hubby & I Handle both #1 & #2. That's when we go mad, trying to put both to sleep by 10.30 pm!
Don't worry, our babies still young rite, still got hope. Haha. This is my schedule.
7.30 am : Bathe #1, pack him to school.
8 - 9 am : #2 gets up. Latch, bathe.
9 - 11 am : #2 sleeps. I bathe, surf the net, pump milk, cook quickly if I have to. Eat a quick lunch.
Afternoons are quite relaxing as long as #2 sleeps.
6 pm to 7 pm : Wash #2 up
7 pm : #1 and hubby gets home
8 pm : Dinner
9 pm : TV / sleep.
10 to 11 pm : Get kids to sleep. (this is the part i find the toughest!)
I wonder how long this bliss would last.
smalldreams
Active Member
MTDT
My #1 used the walker, but walked by 11 mths too. I guess it depends on the kids...
My #1 used the walker, but walked by 11 mths too. I guess it depends on the kids...
shaine
Active Member
Dear mummies, thanks for all the advises 
I take care of my gal since the day of delivery all myself- bathing, feeding etc. but am currently living at my parent's place so mum will help to do the cooking so basically I concerate on taking care of my gal only. Sometime my parent will help me to look after when I go dating with hubby. My mum not very comfortable taking care of small baby so can once a while help me bottle feed or change diapers too, but I feel am already quite fortunate
My in law dun feel care ;p
I take care of my gal since the day of delivery all myself- bathing, feeding etc. but am currently living at my parent's place so mum will help to do the cooking so basically I concerate on taking care of my gal only. Sometime my parent will help me to look after when I go dating with hubby. My mum not very comfortable taking care of small baby so can once a while help me bottle feed or change diapers too, but I feel am already quite fortunate
quite admire those mummies who take care of bb all by themselves, actually since delivery i have been doing confinement at my mum's place, full month this sat. but because my c-sect wound still has not recover due to complications, my mum suggest me not to take care of bb alone at home, ask me to still continue bring baby to her house. I am so afraid I am becoming dependent on her, then when Im alone I will be at a loss...
eyevee
Active Member
Sh@r()n-Sh@in3, same as me. My mom say she dun dare to take care of baby, so lunch time she buy lunch for me. Beside lunch, i take care of bb alone -.-. Very stress. Dun even have parents to relief if i want to go out with HB.
Wei Ting, i have the sarong (from a gf), pikkolo (a gf forget to bring home haha) and going to buy bjorn synergy cos hb like it. I find sarong hard to use leh, pikkolo is good but too many long length strip to click.
Wei Ting, i have the sarong (from a gf), pikkolo (a gf forget to bring home haha) and going to buy bjorn synergy cos hb like it. I find sarong hard to use leh, pikkolo is good but too many long length strip to click.
weiting i only have bjorn synergy which i use when going out. i know some have those very versatile one juz like a normal sarong. but those i donno how to use.
my exersaucer comes with a small mat and i can detach some of the parts from the exersaucer which my bb can use now. so depending on which one u buy ba.
basically my mom dares not handle #2 coz too young. sometimes she would come to my place and help me wif #1.
my exersaucer comes with a small mat and i can detach some of the parts from the exersaucer which my bb can use now. so depending on which one u buy ba.
basically my mom dares not handle #2 coz too young. sometimes she would come to my place and help me wif #1.
kitsune_sg
Active Member
Hi, no. 1 is with my MIL these 2 days cos my MIL wants her to eat more at her house, shun bian toilet train her. I know I shouldn't be complaining cos I get to rest but I feel very sian leh. Everyday rot at home waiting to BF and BF got lumps. No. 1 not in also cannot go out cos don't trust maid with baby alone for too long. Hiaz...
kitsune_sg
Active Member
Calamari, mine turning 2 this Fri.
mushloom, ok. If i see doc will let him know.
Sharon, i haven buy cny clothes. Gonna go nxt mth. I very kiasu, bought alot of clothes for keith of different sizes. Nw kenna bann from buying those going out clothes. Hw bout bb daphne? Hehe
Siri, sashimi can up ss? Good news for me! Haha
ainsley, the tingling sensation is letdown. I had it often, especially after bathe while wiping body. I feel its rather painful leh.
I bought ergo carrier, dunno when bb is fit to use..
Im staying with my parents and 3 sis too! Morning, noon is home along with bb. Gotta latch, simple housework n prep lunch for my youngest sis whose coming hm in the noon. Evening when mum comes back, she'll help to tk care by wiping bb. Night time is me also. Initally mum takes care at night but now she somehow force me to be independent. Nxt mth my dad n her gg overseas. Then i gotta fix 3 meals n full housechores!
Sharon, i haven buy cny clothes. Gonna go nxt mth. I very kiasu, bought alot of clothes for keith of different sizes. Nw kenna bann from buying those going out clothes. Hw bout bb daphne? Hehe
Siri, sashimi can up ss? Good news for me! Haha
ainsley, the tingling sensation is letdown. I had it often, especially after bathe while wiping body. I feel its rather painful leh.
I bought ergo carrier, dunno when bb is fit to use..
Im staying with my parents and 3 sis too! Morning, noon is home along with bb. Gotta latch, simple housework n prep lunch for my youngest sis whose coming hm in the noon. Evening when mum comes back, she'll help to tk care by wiping bb. Night time is me also. Initally mum takes care at night but now she somehow force me to be independent. Nxt mth my dad n her gg overseas. Then i gotta fix 3 meals n full housechores!
arisz... im moving over to my mum place till 40 days. She will cook for me and bath princess cause she still need to look after my eldest. So got to manage princess myself, the scary thing is she drink every 2 hrs and refuse to drink more.
Mushloom... hubby wking late almost everydae. He is hm past 12 or entertainment till 2am.
Mushloom... hubby wking late almost everydae. He is hm past 12 or entertainment till 2am.
genesis, i that time also like that. So i slowly learn n manage bb when cl gonna leave. Lucky i start to learn hw to bathe bb 2 days before the incident happens. So aft she left, still nt so bad. Slowly build up a routine. Dun worry, maternal instints will know wad to do!
ainsley_yip
Active Member
Miu, ur bb's face better alr? Mine much better after me keep applying moisturizer..
kitsune_sg
Active Member
Ivy, I just asked MIL not to pick up my gal tom morning but just now, when I got so much pain from massaging the blocked duct. I regret liao. Maybe should go TMC and see LC. Already massaged for so long last night, thought it's ok liao. End up it's back again. Try to save $ and unsuccessful, already 4 days liao. Just now, my baby cry until so pitiful cos no milk.
Mushloom, I got her so many pairs of training pants and still haven't been consistent with toilet training. Too busy with the baby, and she doesn't want my maid. One thing at a time bah. Don't want to stress myself.
Mushloom, I got her so many pairs of training pants and still haven't been consistent with toilet training. Too busy with the baby, and she doesn't want my maid. One thing at a time bah. Don't want to stress myself.
