hey ladies
woah.. talking about different parenting styles oredy? hehe
i guess we can all pick and choose what sits well with us la.. i believe in routines too. firm believer of it. about the crying it out method, i think this one gotta be more discerning and read our baby's cues and adapt accordingly la. i ferberised my son with his sleeping pattern when he's 6 months. works for me. but aiyoh.. the pain of hearing him cry until vomit was quite painful la. but then again, i also believe in the wearing your baby camp, about how you should respond quickly to babies' cries because that's them communicating a need. the better you respond to their cries, the more secure they'll feel, the less they need to cry to get what they want and they'll grow to become happy, confident kids because they know their need will be attended to. it made sense to me... i dono.. it seems to have worked for me so far.
i guess what i'm saying is that i am in neither of extreme camps la.. i pick and choose what sits well with me.. and i go by my mommy instincts most of the time. it helped me a lot to learn to settle my son and i was able to get him into a routine after the first month. and he was such a happy baby after that so i guess something i did must have been right. hehehe and as usual , i have all these tots written in my old blog somewhere la.. my tots in retrospection...
joyce, do rest well yah. will be sending out positive thoughts and prayers your way.
i lurveeeeeeee that pair of earings loke!!! jealous jealous.. is it cheaper to buy from the likes of your hubby's company compared to those retailers at shopping centres? i've been wanting a bigger diamond since forever.. not for baby or anything. i don't have intentions for a family heirloom lei.. i just want diamonds for myself! hehe. but too bad, hubby not considering it... he says save money better. hehe.. but i love my bling bling la.
joanne: glad that things are better between you and hubby.. don't take things to heart la. men are rather brainless la. they always say without thinking one. my hubby oso the same. but if he says something liddat, i sure fight back la. then i cry. then i sulk for many days. until he comes and sayang2 me again. hehehe.. that's my strategy with my hubby la. since your hubby already made the first peace offering, you just accept graciously and make peace oso ok?