famela >> SAHM: it will be an upheaval of sorts i am sure. however, in a certain peaceful sense, i feel ready to be at home for say, 2 years, to be there for the BB. so mentally, financially and even socially..there's plenty of adjustments. i will try to do some freelance work just to keep abreast of my industry's progress so that if at anytime, i wish to return to employment, my grey matter won't have turned to rust. abt why it has cost more for me to stay at home..well, in my line, nearly every meal i had is paid for by my co's entertainment expense acct. all i have to do is ensure that each meeting revolves around food! muahahaha...plus i do PR for quite a few food establishments hence, meals are nearly always free. now that i am home, the electrical bills have doubled since the a/c is switched on 24/7; i can't do hsework so i have to engage help; and i have to pay for alot of food...not to mention, more tissue paper (throwing up and dealing with a runny nose/cough); change of clothes..i've been so thin, it's getting very tough to squeeze in bottom wise....haiz..of course the major one in the pocket has to be the doc's visits / fees...