Hi xoxo and astro, thanks for sharing. Yah, have not managed to get the book but did some googling. In terms of "assistance", I didn't guide her hand but just put bits of food in her mouth. During her first meal, I think she didn't know that the broccoli was food, since we give it to her sieved. It was only after I put a bit in her mouth then she started to attempt to put it in her mouth.
I stuck to my guns for 7 meals - no top ups with porridge or puree, but after my mum's remark, decided to give her some porridge for lunch today (she has that effect on me), together with her steamed veg which I let her feed herself. A usually has something before her solids. Adapted GF routine, so she takes 6oz milk in the morning, followed by bfast, 3oz before lunch and then dinner, followed by more milk before going down. All in there are 3 solid meals and 3 full milk feeds (6oz) and 2 half feeds = 4 full milk feeds. I wld like to drop the half feeds but she doesn't drink a lot of milk in one go (tt's another battle), so I kept them.
Eh, it's been 2.5 months since she started weaning, is it still considered "early weeks"?
But I have to say that I do think that BLW has its advantages. She complains less and is spending the time playing with her food, tho my husband is a bit tired of all the food flinging (is it wrong to tell A not to do it?). And I can see in the first day that she really got progressively better with each meal. Anyway thot I'd share this pic of her eating corn. Quite an achievement by my book. Hee hee.
Thanks so much for all the advice and sharing. Really appreciate it.