ariajo,
for iphone, u can still add via email id, using safari... not the facebook app.
i did it.
>> Hair
my baby dropped alot of hair, so much that he has botak holes at the back of his head, so i went to shave his head (to the much displeasure of my MIL la, she thinks that baby head is still soft and that everyone is not professional enough to trim the bb head) i engage the help of Tao Mao Bi Zhong Xin, they help to shave my bb head to 3mm hair length and use the hair to help me make the brushes lo.
so is it true tat baby dropped alot of hair den mummy will not drop? this is because i got super long hair, but i haven been dropping hair yet. you know my mil is super irritating, cos everyday she will tell me i am going to drop alot of hair, which i will tell her, dun haf leh, but she will insist "you will surely dropped alot of hair!" super ley chey! my son is already coming 16 weeks liao lo!
>> hair treatment
i think should be ok to dye or perm as the chemical absorbed via hair is much lesser than those absorbed via scalp. anyway, i enquire with a dermalogist about doing laser treatments if will affect breastfeeding, his answer was there is nothing that we do to or apply on our skin that will affect breastfeeding, only oral medications ba... but to be on safer side, if you want to be a Greater mummy, then just endure for a few more months lo.
>>Back to work
i just applied a 2 months unpaid leave and got approved! i admit i am very possessive of my baby, i mean, after going through so much suffering during pregnancy and confinement, i am not going to let anyone do anything that is not good for my son! \
>>Complaints about my MIL
sorry gals! please let me rant off here, else i am suffering from internal injuries from being too angry! initially the plan was to let my mil retire from her kopishop business and look after my son. but i seriously doubt if she knows how to take care of a baby (even though she has 2 sons herself) because:
- i informed her the PD said my baby has very sensitive skin, he also cannot apply the medicated oil on his tummy bcos he will breakout in rashes. I do not expect her to reply me, just want to let her know so she will not apply when i go to work, but she replied anyway with "then i go peel a piece of ginger and rubbed his tummy with the raw ginger lo!" ????!!!!!!! hello is she in outer space? sensitive skin still use raw ginger to rub then what's going to happen to my son? i tell her PLEASE better do not apply anything
- she asked if my baby poo has solidify like an adult poo, as in like one streak (i dunno how to describe la.. just 1 long poo la) so i was like HUH?!?!! of cos not la! he is only 3 months old and still on total breastfeeding lei! and she kept on saying no no no... he should have solid poo already. WTH?!
- She said baby 6 months old can feed him eat guo tiao already and she wants to feed him eat guo tiao... and i went, No La! 6 mths old we will just start to wean him and we will feed him vegetables and fruits first. but she insists can feed the baby eat guo tiao cos today a mother bring her baby to the kopishop and the mother feed her 6 mths old baby to eat guo tiao. ???!!!!?! WTH? if she wanna feed a baby guo tiao, she jolly well find another baby where the mother allow her to do so! because i do not allow! i keep telling her cannot but she insists so i told my hubby immediately and my hubby replied her HUH??! guo tiao has so much perservatives, better do not feed him this, then she kept quiet.
- this is on top of the fact that she will tell my baby that his mommy is very bad, his mommy is scolding him, his mummy very mean etc. i super hate it whenever i hear her said that! i should have just snatch my baby back and locked ourselves in the room instead!
- also the fact that she told my own mother not to carry my baby, because we only carry during bathtime and feeding, but she herself carry, rock and pat the baby non stop for 1 to 2 hours every evening! now better still, she likes to sit the baby upright to watch the tv every evening too. whenever i ask her not to carry for too long or rock or pat or let him watch tv, she will reply me "you never do these in the day right? so it's ok to do so at night!" WTH! what i do not do to my baby doesnt mean she can do!
- every evening, she expects my baby to be outside in the living room so that she can play with the baby. and she will be super noisy. i mean playing with baby is ok, carrying him is ok.. just do not go overboard. imagine ok! how she talk to my baby is like this... she will do a rap version (imagine how fast she goes ok) of ki koo ki koo, nam nam nam nam, nin bong nin bong, wher wher wher, ye ye zai nan li ahhhhhhhhh? yu zai nan li ahhhhhhh? nam mo guang shi yin pu sai, ki koo ki koo... nan nan de tian kong yin he li... ki koo ki koo.... i find her super disturbing. so much that i cannot tolerate her voice and it gives me the mirgraine... i wonder how my baby takes it cos everytime he will end up crying and she will say cos he wants granny to carry him.....
super sad!!
i really really feel like leaving home. things used to be ok with my MIL.. but now, i begin to dislike her to the core. because every night there bound to be something to argue about with her!
i really really envy those who are staying on your own already!
