Maid Update
Okie.. Hubs talked to the maid last nite. We have sort of decided to do an 'appraisal' with her, then see if she improves. At the same time, we'll keep a lookout for bio-datas of new maids in case she still doesn't buck up.
Just to recap, she has a plethora of small problems such as slowness, forgetfulness, kaypohness,... can close one eye to these. But the 2 major (or maybe it's one problem connected to her attitude) is that she has insubordination problems (such as bringing Sam outside when MIl told her not to, some attitude problem, & over-stepping her boundaries such as giving Sam food when she feels that he wants to eat, imposing herself when we are trying to have quality bonding time with him).
Hubs talked to her last night & appealed to her maturity to know what needs to be done or not... To emphasise that Sam is OUR son & we want to have bonding time with him & that she shd not make ANY decisions abt his feeding, water, napping etc etc.. And that she has to bear in mind that her job is her responsibility & that she is not to forget herself. Of course, there was some praise of her in that she cares abt Sam, she is quite ok generally yada yada.
I didn't say anything, just sat on the mat & did my own things while Hubs & the maid 'talked' at the table.
So.. we shll observe *hiaz*