(2009/08) August 2009 MTBs


zen

Ovulation is 14 days before your next period. It is NOT 14 days after your last period. I also didn't know till my gynae told me haha

But the silly thing is.. how do we know when is our next period unless we're very regular right?
 
donkeymami

Yup +ve liao! Wow it's been 2 yrs since I used that

babymaking

Yeah lor! And googling doesn't yield anything more useful too
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pegsfur, maybe if he wakes up to play, you'll have to insist he go back to sleep. After a while, he will know that he is not supposed to wake up and play?

jul, with a maid, there is no choice but to have talks sometimes. I also dislike confrontation, but if dun say, the maid become worse!! Or ask your hb to talk to her instead?

donekeymami, all the best!
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babymaking, Christmas gathering sounds good!
 
haha +ve liao..ok ok need to inform my hubby to stanby. so shd i BD to9 or tmr? usually we O within 24-36hrs after +ve OPK right? This time i aim for boy le.
 
Re: 2hrs playgroup daily
i stroll around in my neighbourhood and found quite a few. Tho is not those famous ones but i feel still better than nothing

Ok. How everyone manage to post using iphone? I am exploring using my hubby's samsung phone and it took me 20mins to type a post!
 
mich

True lah.

I shall observe her & see if I need to talk to her this weekend.

it's hard when she's at MIL's all day & I'm at work. Weekends are already occupied with Sam, & I don't really fancy having to spy on the maid then do staff appraisal & appraisal interview! haha

reira

Er.. Just surf from iPhone Safari & post lor
 
donkeymami

Jiayou hor! But I must say.. I must have BD-ed every single day from OPK + for 3 or 4 days.. still boy! Muahahaha
 
Donkeymami,
Ha..i thot it was a pregnancy test kit n was abt to congratulate u!:p
Well.."get it going!" Jia you!

Babymakin & Reira,
U ladies bringing ur boys on Thurs? I may join u guys..
 
juz to check any difference between short grain rice(those used for making sushi i tink) and normal rice? been using it to cook for javier's porridge for a while so thinking to buy another packet when this one finish or the normal one..
 
baby ja

The Jap rice is more sticky & starchy & chewy compared to our rice. I've never given Sam Jap rice tho. All along it's been normal Thai rice. But I try to get 'new crop rice' which is softer & easier to cook.

I bot from online shop. Prob made in China type. Dunno if they'll fit me yet. *cross fingers*
 
jul
i used to give javier the normal rice but after 2 episode of sickness, he rejected porridge totally. so for a while i give cereal, then i tried this rice and he eat.. so thinking to continue, but took a longer time to cook loh..
 
jul

nowadays i also always buy online.. no time go shopping leh.. then i realised they always indicate dress but very short one leh.. i already short liao but still cannot fit as dress leh.. kena cheated 1 time, so now i always check their length for dress.. and i find those online shop, their cutting quite small...
 
Jul, could be u BD-ed the day u ovulated tat's why u got Sam hehehe!

Wow! good buys le..happy shopping ya!

PJPJ & babyj, if +ve HPT vy easy to see jz 2 lines means strike liao..i always confused the OPK test result that's why post here for some opinions
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Jul,
if u wan gal i tink mus BD be4 O wor cos female sperm can survive longer.. if u BD after +ve usu boi cos male sperm swim faster...

Donkeymami,
actually i tink gal or boi all fated 1 but to increase ur chance of boi maybe BD tml ??
 
donkeymami, don't be too stress or think too much about it... I remember when I only strike when I didn't stress about it
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Baby ja,
Let's be suaku together
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As for the Jap rice,i use the calrose rice from Aust (with the kangaroo logo),nice
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now i dun take Thai rice,prefer to take this cos it is more chewy.


Donkeymami,
If u wan any preg test strips (free la for u),pls PM me.

Hi Piggy,
Hee hee...tat is wat my gfs who all have boys said.."if u wan gal i tink mus BD be4 O wor cos female sperm can survive longer.. if u BD after +ve usu boi cos male sperm swim faster".

They tried and it did not work. Asked gynae,he said no such thing la!

So i also dunno man..
 
Piggytoh,
Ya lor..i also think..there is 50:50 chance wat..so see how lor.
U mentioned ur delivery for no.1 got multiple tears? How come?
 
PJPJ,
cos my boi head big lo den i act clever tell my gynae to minimise the cut end up need vaccum when bb out force too fast end up multiple tear really v painful tink when i discharge i see others can walk pretty fast liao but i still cant walk well at all
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donkeymami: yes, +ve!

re baby's gender: i only bd once, on the day i saw EWCM.. and shayna is a girl lor..haha..

or is EWCM a sign that its before ovulation and not already ovulating?

piggy: oh dear!! must be so painful.. i had quite a bad tear too, cos i was pushing so hard and so long cos shayna wasnt fully down yet. Dr spent some time stitching and he too said quite bad but his stitching skills was very good. no pain at all and i could walk as normal by next day..
 
bABYs,
my gynae dun dare to say anything until he finish stitchin.. i was still wonderin how come he took forever to stitch.. hmm it took me 1wk+ to walk normal.. my gynae stitchin not bad too cos some with multiple tear i tink more than 2wk to walk norm wor.. anyway abit worry this time also wil kena cos the tear line is alr ther v scare will tear again
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PJPJ
Tink i using that calrose brand, blue in packaging right? I throw away the packaging after transfering to a container.
After cook, can still see the porridge rice grain bigger than the normal rice. I din use that to cook for our rice leh so dunno good anot... Hee..
 
O is 14 days b4 ur next menses. So u got to know how many days ur cycle and calculate from there. I used to have 33 days cycle so my o on day 19. But i nv tried those o stripe b4 so dunno accurate anot. That time i bd alternate days from day 14 till day 21 and i still strike javier on 1 cycle. So tink fated lah.. Hee...

Then still got to see ur hubby side how many brothers and sisters he has. If more brothers, mean chances of ur hb's boy sperm more loh.. This is wat i heard too.. My hb oni child so dunno true anot..
 
Wooo ... back from ovann's class. This time he's better, though he still monkey around the class. I'm so tired!

Hiaz ... ovann's routine is all messed up today due to his class. He took a 1-hr nap just now after his class and lunch. Now he's not sleeping liao .... wonder if he can tahan till bedtime or if he needs another nap in the evening?

Speaking of opk .. haha .. i've just stopped using them liao, cos i think i changed my mind. Ovann's gonna be an ONLY child
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Donkeymami,
heheh.. i also din expect to strike so fast but who knows.. strike at 1st try lol~~ u jiayou...

Babyja,
lucky u i try nearly 2 yr to strike 1... hmm my HB side boy n gal quite balance wor.. so dunno true anot haha.. cos i got 2 boys while my BIL #1 is gal..
 
Anyone's menses cycle still not In order? Already a year, my cycle still nit bad to normal leh. Used to report quite regularly on 33 days but now all mess up. Sometimes can come oni with 28 days and 35 days.. Haiz how to calculate next time.. Will tcm help?
 
piggy/ donkeymami,

Ya, i think i'll just stop at 1. No doubt i'd love to give him a companion but i think i can't really cope. Plus, after going thru a few cycles, i find it stressful & felt despair again esp when my menses come.

Maybe i shldn't say i'll stop at ovann, but rather let nature take it's course bah. I'm not going to calculate and plan precisely when we gonna bd. If it happens that i strike, den it's a bonus
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And if i dun, i'll just let it be.
 
BabyJa,
hahah now i got 2 boys wonder if he will get another gal but my HB got 1 sis n 1 bro la..

Donkeymami,
sure u will i nv expect also:p
hmm i took BFW also no prob wor.. but when u ttc i hear take be4 u O wor..
 
pegsfur, i get wat u mean. If you just want to have 1 kid meaning u wun b so stressful to try to #2. if strike it's a bonus so that u wun feel disappointed.
 
whats bfw huh?

pegs, let nature take its course, meanwhile enjoy your time with ovann! glad he enjoyed his class today..

babyja: not true for me leh.. my husband side all boys, but mine is girl. ahaah..

my cycle still a bit messed up. last time will report between 30- 32 days. since it returned, sometimes 30. sometimes 36!
 
pegsfur
u too stress le lah.. let nature take it course ba.. who knows very soon right..

donkeymami
BFW = bai feng wan? wat is it for? nv take b4 leh..

babys
haha.. i not sure also.. someone told me one.. hee.. and mayb not this generation also.. mayb his father or grandfather generation also coz is gene..

ya loh.. all mess up liao.. mine very zun reporting at 33 days now haiz.. i got one time 36 days also.. faint..

piggy
ya loh, thats y Hb told me go tcm again..
 

pegsfur,

i'm also like you. i wanted to stop at 1 cos i really can't handle ethan. he's too active. at the end of each day, my mother, my hb & i are all worn out! he 1 person will make all 3 of us so tired. how to have another 1? i even quarrelled wif my hb abt having #2. cos we used to wan 2-3 kids. up till now, my hb still wans a 2nd one though he can't stand noise & mess. we even have to get someone else to look after my GR now. i was feeling so upset & cried for days. now i'm starting to change my mind. thinking whether i shd really just dun think so much & go for #2.

donkeymami,

i'm opposite you. i wan a girl for the next one.
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but if boy again also never mind.
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as long as it's healthy.
 

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