FJM, or may be cos my tummy stretching, more sensitive.. then at night when sleeping, i cannot differentiate what it is, so i just support, feels a bit better lah..
i personally feel if kor kor hor, he doesnt need to like take care of everyday events, but can take care of mei mei and protect her. Boys less emotional so more zai if anything happens.
Like when i was 5 i got lost at AMK interchange, and got brought by someone to the old bus interchange which was super far from where i got lost. THen thank God my brother came to the interchange (he was.... 9yrs old) to look for me. When i saw him i run out and cry, then i remember he very valently said "dont cry. kor kor bring u to go find mummy".. my hero!!! hahaha
i think if i were the jie jie, i will cry more than my di di who is lost. my di di may just stare at me.. ahhahaah
and if its a jie jie first hor, i might kick start her maternal instincts too fast, scared she become too nuturing, too bossy.. thinking she is everyone's mummy..