babylet:
i dunno how dr will deem an episiotomy necessary.. but i read from webbies and learnt from other mummies that for asians, it is sometimes better to hv it done else u may face very bad tears.
my case was that my bb was in distress as amniotic fluid was very low due to my waterbag burst n leaking for past 7hrs, thats y gynae cut me to fasten the process. He did not tell me or hb that bb in distress though, coz he worry i kan jiong and push at the wrong time.
though it sounds scary, i din feel pain when my gynae was cutting me.(i think i was in too labour pain and also too tired. the only thing in my mind was to get my ger out quick. and dr tell mi to push. i squeeze with all my might. in fact i din even know what he was doing. By the 3rd time he told mi to push, my ger was out and was placed on me. Even when he stitch me, i also dunno until i saw the thread n needle... maybe was too tired from all the pushing n joy of finally seeing my lil ger after having her in my tummy for 9mths.. lol.. afterwards, my hb ask mi if i knew gynae was cutting me, i told him i dunno...
RE: Nuchal & oscar scan.
i still thinking of doing it... i know my gyane will refer to TMC... it is ard 300+ for oscar.. detailed scan at tmc was $125 (when i did it last year)
i know TMC has recently increased the wards charges... one bedder is now ard 530. thats y i am thinking of giving birth at Mt A and i found Mt A nurses friendlier.. keke.. i even made friends with the nurses there when my ger was warded there.
Jaclyn..
oic... for me, i pop over to my gf place almost ev other day.. coz she also hv a son one mth younger than my ger. we both mingle so that we can keep each other sane.. haha