weishy, its the 1st time i come across filipino with such english - we've been hiring maids since i was a kid leh... anyway, have requested for a replacement oredi - she's also not very clever, other than her lousy english.
8kg is not that fat lah... most of the weight goes to the bb... if i'm not wrong, my bb shd be about 1kg now... then plus the placenta, water bag, etc... 3kg is actually too little weight gain... scared my OB will 'scold' me next week!
my edd is now early aug (1st week) after the numerous visits.